ojedieu on Collarspace

I'm a 35 year old, female, married, switch. I only ever sub to my husband so I'm not looking for a Dom.

I am also NOT looking for a cyber relationship.

What I am looking for: Friends in the scene, people I can talk with without worrying about accidentally letting something slip which might shock or offend those "normal" folks out there.

What I like: People who can spell (or at least have the decency to use a spell-checker), have both good physical and dental hygiene and are reasonably intelligent. Those who are able to think about and challenge their own beliefs and actions get extra brownie points.

If you write to me: Please add a picture (of your face. You may be amazingly proud of your privates but that's not what I want to see. Think "tact".) You don't have to have a pic on your profile if you're worried about the whole world browsing this website and outing you, but if you don't, please add it as an attachment to your email. I like to see who I'm typing to.

Addendum -- As I've gotten so much spam-mail on here I also ask the following: Please also indicate that you've actually read my profile by 1) Using my name and 2) unless I've already started a regular correspondence with you, (and since some of the spammers can now write software that'll use my name anyhow) including this nonsense phrase via cut n paste as the first line in your email:
"It was midnight on the ocean not a streetcar was in sight."

If we're already writing regularly, you don't have to include it but if it's been a while or it's the first letter you're sending me, please use it as I'll be deleting all messages from people I don't immediately recognize that are without it.

How to pronounce it:

Ojedieu (Ah'-jhuh'-doo)

Okie? :)