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Hi there, My name is Oddball and that's not just a cute nickname. I'm a submissive switch. I enjoy dominating very much, there is a degree of satisfaction in dominance that you just can not obtain when submitting. However i am primarily a submissive, and it goes both ways, satisfaction that just can not be obtained from dominance.
Kink to me is far deeper and much more important than sex. Sex is not required for a good session, whether it's with a play partner or a life partner. I feel very close to those i play with and i prefer to learn and grow with others.
Whether dominant or submissive, with the right partner, there needs to be trust, i would never let somebody lock me up, or tie me without trusting them, nor would i expect to tie anybody up if i have not earned their trust.
I am looking for a life partner. I prefer a dominant or switch female but sometimes the right one does not meet a set criteria and i am aware and ok with this. I am a very open minded man. If i were to end up with a submissive girl, as long as the connection was there i would still be happy. I am also open to the idea of being in an open relationship, especially if i were with a fellow submissive, i would want her to find a play partner that could satisfy her need for dominance and would hope that she would want the same for me. (perhaps even a fellow submissive would want to be dominated by the same Domme :-)
I hope to get married and have children someday. I am neither formerly married, nor am i a father...yet, but for me to have a beautiful family someday is one of my biggest goals in life.
I am a Part time National Guardsman, Full time EMT, and an on call Firefighter, i am beyond the point where i immaturely use the "man in uniform" appeal, I prefer to use my big heart to win the hearts of others. I do love my job but i prefer to be myself when i'm not at work.
When i'm not at work or doing anything involving kink, you can often find me having fun in other ways. Depending on the day, if it's cold, rainy and just a dull day i usually stay indoors and watch movies or play games, but if it's a beautiful day i prefer not to waste it. You can usually find me somewhere with a beautiful view and my camera, i am not a professional photographer by any means, but i absolutely love taking pictures of just about anything. I feel my lack of professional equipment makes me a better artist and i thoroughly enjoy the pictures i take. in my mind, if i see something worth taking a picture of, then i fell in love with it without any manipulation and i enjoyed the sight as it was.
You may also find me at the gym, either on the treadmills or in the Pool, i have recently gotten back to routinely excersizing after having put on a few pounds (i have not become obese, just a little heavier and a bigger belly). Theres no better feeling than that of a job well done, and getting in a good workout certainly makes me say "good job".
The right woman is out there, i hope i find you soon :-)
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