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I am looking for a REAL Domme who in turn is looking for a REAL relationship. Not interested in being a play partner or "one of". I want to find someone who enjoys all aspects of life, not just D/s.
I'm very quiet and shy when first meeting new people. It takes a little time, but I do open up eventually. Trust is huge with me and it has been taken advantage of so many times over the years, making it difficult to let people get close to me. Those walls are starting to shorten, but I still remain cautious and reserved till I get to know you better. I am a very loyal friend and always there when I am needed, but once that trust is betrayed, those loyalties are lost.
Please do not take my silence as being stuck up or uninterested. I'm just trying to get a feel for my surroundings first before I am comfortable with them.
As for the lifestyle, I've been interested in this since I was an early teen and only started being active in the last 4 years or so. There have been ups and downs, as I'm sure all of us have experienced. But still, every new experience is a lesson learned, no matter how good or bad. ~Knowledge is power and learning from your mistakes can only bring you closer to your dreams~
Although I have very little experience in both play and in a defining role, I have accumulated many interests and fetishes over time by watching others and doing research on many different scenes. Public play is really not my thing as I found out. I much more prefer a private setting that is more intimate with less distractions and audience. ( I'm shy! ) I do have my hard limits, and they are set in stone, but I've left several others open to be pushed and challenged. I have found that I am a HUGE sensation slut! ;)
One thing I have learned in my journey is that evolution is a process that cannot be rushed. Just as in vanilla life, growth and development of who you are and who you will become takes time and must be taken with patience and understanding. Thinking you will miss something and being too hasty will only make the fall from grace much more painful. The day I am to pass on what I have learned to another soul... this will be rule number One.
I can be goofy and geeky, to serious and focused. Romantic and sensual, to playful and wicked. I love laughter, good company, intriguing conversations, and exploring new things and places. I would like to one day find someone to share a healthy D/s relationship that can also maintain the vanilla aspects as well. If you are interested in knowing more, please, don't be shy. I don't bite unless told to do so 
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