I am not actively seeking a partner. Thank you.
*** Please check your Domlier- or subbier- than thou attitude RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW. Thank you. ***
If you think I am one of those "pussy wrapped in leather, personality optional" women, get lost. I am a human being, do not forget that.
This profile is perpetually under construction. I am constantly trying to find the right words to express what I'm looking for in this medium. At the moment, I'm not looking for partners. I am currently dating two wonderful people and I am very happy. I'm also finding I have very little luck finding partners through "the ads", and have been much more successful meeting people in my life's natural course. Not to say I've not had success here...but this is really not my first line of action for meeting partners.
But since you're here to know more about me, read on...
First off, I feel I need to address my self-labeling. I find it's hard for me to put myself in a nice little box. For simplicity sake, I identify as a sub with a bit of a top streak. I used to identify as a switch, until I realised how much my Dominant side was a by-product of my submission. I find that while I don't mind inflicting pain or sensation onto my partner, what I enjoy most is pleasing them. So for me, while the course of action might appear more Dominant, the motive is out of submission.
Still with me here?
While I am open to many types of relationships, at the moment I am primarily interested in meeting switches of either gender to be play partners with. I am currently not looking for a monogamous long-term relationship or a 24/7. While these types of relationships are eventually a possibility for me, right now this is not the case. I don't plan on relocating any time in the near future either.
I'm willing to befriend people who are respectful and intelligent (use your own judgement of what's respectful and intelligent here people), however I'm picker about people I choose to date. Ideally, I'm looking for someone who is educated (and by educated I mean more than a high school diploma!), independent, and between the ages of 25 and 40.
But for now feel free to send me a message, and chances are if you've filled out a profile I will respond. I'm an aspiring writer so if my responses seem a bit quirky, don't worry. Unless what I write is downright malicious, I mean no harm.
Here are a few more tidbits about me:
I like to make hairpieces out of various synthetic materials. Much of it has been inspired by London's cybergoth "look", but really, I'll try to use anything that could look like hair in a piece. The plastic wig I'm wearing is my first attempt, the dreads came a bit later. More pics to come soon.
I am a HUGE roller coaster fan. I've rode around 75-100 coasters in 4 countries, my favorites being Hulk at Universal Studios Islands of Adventure, Mantis at Cedar Point, Nemesis at Alton Towers, and Superman at what used to be Six flags Holland.
I like to travel. I've been across western USA and Canada, all over the UK and parts of Europe, and once I finish my degree I'll be heading to either South America (Peru most likely) or Australia.
I'm passionate about theatre. I've been involved in many things theatre since the age of 5, and I am currently in the process of starting my own theatre company.
I'm not a gamer, but a lot of my friends are. Gamers are cool.
I love gen 1 transformers. Hey, I was a tomboy growing up.
Right. That's my pseudo-CV. Are you still there? Hopefuly so, and I look forward to hearing from you.
-Obskura
Here's a quote I like, that I recently posted in my blog (LJ).
"Every day I'm saying the most personal thing I could ever say. And I don't know if I want people in my head that much, but I've chosen to give that out because I realized that's what made the strongest statement, that was the most honest art I could make. But one of the prices is that there's an open raw nerve that I'm letting everybody look at. There's a hole in the back of my pants with a bare a*shole showing, and you can see right in there. And sometimes I wish I hadn't." Trent Reznor, Details magazine interview, April 1995
