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Hetero Male Dominant, 62,  Monterey, California
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I am seeking slaves or subs, for online service and real time. I appreciate subs slaves that know their place...

The power exchange between Dom and Sub is intoxicating .... I want as much as you can give to me ....

I am a sadist in search of a Maso .....

Some subs have told me that I sound too extreme for them ... let me say that I am primarily interested in your submission and if you have any hard limits... we can discuss them....

I have been in the lifestyle for over 10 years and have trained both real time and online slaves subs. I am insatiable for more....

I also have a professional life and I must maintain sufficient privacy, therefore, my pictures will be provided at the appropriate time. My profile picture is my homestone, other pictures are some of my desires and thoughts.

There are far too many fakes and frauds on this website, I am very real and can prove it. I will not waste your time and you should not waste mine. I know what I want .... This listing will give you the flavor that I seek, but you do not have to be a perfect match ... It is all about chemistry ...

And .... if there is anything I have written here that concerns you .... I wish to know your thoughts about it ... life is too short to miss an opportunity through a misunderstanding ...

You .....

- crave humiliation

- do not have many limits (as a true slave would not have them)

- love the outdoors

- love to beg, you know that you must beg for everything

- love to kiss for hours

- dont mind what my age is, it is just a number

- you are not jealous

- you are a bad girl

- have VERY large breasts (or wish that you did)

I am seeking a true submissive. I am a retired Military officer and am very good at giving orders and expecting your obedience. This profile is not my resume or my c.v., it does not encompass the entirety of my experience in the lifestyle or my vanilla life. I have listed in my lives for section some of the things I enjoy, but it is not an all inclusive listing.

I will be completely honest with you in all things and I expect you to be as well, never lie to me. I have been told that I look at least 10 years younger than my age and I have the pictures to prove it .... in my humble opinion.

I think that age is just a number and it is just a question of chemistry.... lets chat and then meet for coffee or lunch and see if we have the chemistry... or we dont.

I prefer to chat on Facebook messenger, google hangouts, kik, Tumblr or Skype, but we can start here.

Life is too short...all my best wishes in your search.

And in the spirit of full disclosure ... I am Caucasian ...

I wish you well,













 Dominant Male



 6' 1"

 205 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

Male Dom Couples

Online Romance

 Lives For:

 Begging (Expert)

 Blindfolding you (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)


 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 You wearing my collar (Expert)

 Corner Time

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Rear End Play (Expert)

 Domestic Service

 Erotic touch (Expert)

 Gags (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Housework Service

 Humiliation (Expert)

 Placing you on a leash (Expert)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Modern Primitivism

 Obedience Training

 Objectification (Expert)


 Sensation Play (Expert)

 Outdoor Bondage (Expert)

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Sensory Play

 Spanking you (Expert)

 Suspension Bondage (Expert)


 Wax Play

 Whips (Expert)

 Historical Shows

 Science Fiction

 True Crime

 TV Sports

 1950s Lifestyle (Expert)

 Cuckolding (Expert)

 Gor (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)


 Ice Hockey (Expert)

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Journal Entries:
3/29/2018 10:16:55 AM
Humiliation challenge ..... every time you wear a dress or skirt, when getting in the car leave your door open so others can see you, hike up your dress or skirt all the way to the tops of your legs so your panties clearly show ... and drive like that all the time ...

3/5/2018 11:44:38 AM
Humiliation challenge number 5: every time you are wearing a dress and/or a skirt, and riding an escalator ... get on when men are right behind you .. drop your purse ... bend over and show them your ass and panties .... assuming you are wearing any ... do it at every opportunity ... make it a habit ...

3/4/2018 8:35:05 AM
To expand on my first humiliation challenge listed below:
1. Wear a short dress or skirt
2. Wear thigh high lacy topped stockings
3. whenever you sit down in public, hike up your skirt so the tops of the stockings show
4. Do not cross your legs and let anyone there see up between your legs and clearly see your panties
5. Drop your purse and bend over to pick it up ... clearly exposing your ass and panties to those watching you.
6. Unbutton your blouse to below your bra, so your tits and bra are clearly visible to everyone.
7. Write to me afterwards and tell me what happened and how it made you feel.
8. Admit to me how excited it made you ...

2/28/2018 10:27:29 AM
Suggestions .... I am always looking for new ideas on how to humiliate sexy women ... give me your ideas ...

2/23/2018 11:58:01 AM
Challenge number four .....
create a business card and have cards with you at all times, the card should read as follows: “My master wants you to fuck me .... if you want to fuck me, kiss me right now ... and then give me your card so I can call you”

I am not saying that you are submitting to me ... the man you give the card to does not need to know whether you have a master or not ... he is just fucking you ...

2/5/2018 9:58:33 AM
I have four challenges listed here ... complete any one of them or all of them....
I dare you ...

1/20/2018 10:32:27 AM
Challenge number three:

Buy a shelf bra ..... wear it for an entire day .... with a very sheer top ... so  breasts and nipples clearly show through the material.
Or ..... Take one of your bras and cut holes in it for your nipples.
Or .... simply go bra less for the entire day .... still wearing a sheer top that clearly shows your nipples ....

1/17/2018 2:55:47 PM
challenge number two....
For those of you who want to be a whore ...

Wear a sheer white dress, nothing under it, a coat over it is permitted and high heels.
take a case of condoms .... and go to the nearest truck stop. You have to fuck at least 10 men..... save each full condom and pour the cum into a plastic Tupperware ....

Take pictures of yourself when you start and after the 10 men have fucked you. And a picture of the full Tupperware.  For bonus points, take the cum home .... strip nude.... lay on your bed ..... pour the cum over your tits and take another picture.

If 10 men is too many for you ... you can negotiate a lower number ..... I am a reasonable Dom.

1/5/2018 8:22:18 AM
challenge number one.
whenever wearing a skirt, wear thigh high stockings, and when driving or riding in a car, riding in the subway or a bus, hike up your skirt as far as you dare ....  show as much leg as you dare, at least to the tops of the stockings... tease the men, do not cross your legs .... leave them open so your panties are clearly visible ...
and .....
unbutton the third button on your blouse, show your bra ..... and your cleavage ....
if anyone “complains” you can always look down and say you accidentally left it unbuttoned....
tease the men where you live .... and tease them some more !!

12/31/2017 12:34:12 PM
Happy new year 🎉🎉🎊🎊🎊
All my best wishes to you and your families ....

12/4/2017 3:38:59 PM
I find subs that know their place extremely attractive ....
Those that have realized who their superiors are .....
are very, very attractive ....

11/15/2017 7:29:47 AM
I am especially drawn to couples ..... lets chat

11/7/2017 12:29:52 PM
While I would be very pleased to have a local sub/slave serving me .... I am very open to long distance training and service.

8/25/2017 8:44:39 AM
Look at this ....

5/1/2017 1:21:53 PM
Are you curious about how submissive you are?? Go to this website and take the "survey",

1/25/2017 7:58:41 AM
I have discovered a private chat room where the conversation is deleted when you leave the room .... very interesting...

1/23/2017 9:52:07 AM
If you are seeking training, I have years of experience with both online and real time ....
I welcome your questions about it ...

1/6/2017 2:42:56 PM
I solemnly swear that I am up to no good !!

10/26/2016 2:14:43 PM
Making a proper first impression in this lifestyle is a function of expectations .... so if you have some, give me the benefit of the doubt until I know what they are.
I wish you well....

5/17/2016 8:55:19 AM
I would be very pleased to take you out for lunch ... No strings .... And see if we have the chemistry that we all are seeking here.

3/23/2016 10:46:11 AM
There are far too many fakes and webcam girls on this site ... But I assure you that I am real and I can prove it.

3/15/2016 2:45:59 PM
After reading my profile, you must have a question that you want to ask me .... Go ahead.... Fire away ....

1/19/2016 10:45:39 AM
Another rainy day in Monterey .... All my best wishes to my collarspace friends !! ;)

12/2/2015 2:47:58 PM
I have a slave contract that I can share ... Let me know and we can discuss it.

11/13/2015 11:43:23 AM
By the way .... I simply adore beautiful women who beg for everything ....

10/22/2015 1:35:53 PM
I have just posted pictures of a sub in my dungeon, let me know if you would like to see more !!!!!

10/22/2015 8:09:49 AM
I am not here to play games, I want to meet with "you" as soon as practicable ... I have been looking for a very long time and want to discover if we have the proper chemistry. I want to meet you right away ... Let's chat !!!

10/20/2015 2:02:25 PM
I am a real Dom, seeking real subs/slaves .... If you don't think you are a match to my desires written in my profile, write to me anyway ... Beauty is in the eye of the beholder ... Who in this case, is me !!!

7/6/2015 1:24:24 PM
I simply adore huge breasts. The larger the better. I don't care if they are real or enhanced, there is no such thing as breasts that are too big.

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