Me- A part of me wants to say that I've been "lifestyle" my whole life, but that's just not reality, at one point I was a kid that thought things were "pretty", but I had no idea really what those things meant. It was not really till high school that I started playing around with sadomasochism, and the adult me can look back and say that the reality of that was more teen hormones raging. Still, I did not really understand what I had already started trying to look for. The subconscious is a mystery after all. It was not till around 17 that I had a more solid grasp on what I wanted, but the ability to properly explain that, the courage to face my own demons, and of course the lack of appropriate partners kinda left things in a pseudo kinkless equilibrium until I was about 20. Even then, it took another two years before I had the will and desire to do a complete life overhaul in an attempt to have a life which I saw in my mind was possible and fulfilling. That's when I met my current Master. Yes. I am in a relationship, but I am also poly, so that works. :) Master and I have been together now for about 4.5 years. We have crazy busy lives, but lots of fun too. I'm currently in college pursuing a Bachelors degree in Nursing. Life for the most part is pretty normal. We host a fantastic party once a month for the local community, anyone local should message me about that.?

Why I'm here- ?I've been taking a break from being active for a long time, but I'm finally feeling I'm in a good place to work on opening up again to make new friends, maybe more. That said... I HAVE NO INTEREST IN YOUR COCK.... I have an interest in people, I abhor men who have such low self esteem that they feel the need to plaster their cock on the front page of their profiles. I get why one might have a cock shot in other photos, but main page? Really? Anyway, I am upfront about being horrid when it comes to responding to messages. Don't take it personally. Its not. I'm a full time student, a full time slave, and have a life of my very own... lol

Yeah... and the interests... :)

I've lived most of my life with the notion that solid female relationships just don't happen for me, so most of my experience is with men. I'd like someday to meet a woman who could bring out those kinds of butterflies, I just have not yet. I am definitely a sub, but really its about the person I'm around. Some people just don't bring that part out of me, instead they get my in control, handle the situation self. I suppose I'd have to say that insofar as more detailed interests... read the "list" over there on the other part of my profile... I've gone through it in a pretty detailed way. I'm not new. I've done somethings that would probably strike terror in people, but I've still not done it all. I love experiencing life in all of its facets, though pain is still a soft spot of mine... GOOD PAIN... lol.

I think for now this just about wraps it up, I'm sure I'll think of something else later, but if you have questions please feel free to ask. I may not respond right away but so long as you are not a total DOUCHE BAG you will get some kind of response. The only exceptions to that are if you send one word/ sentence messages or some kind of B.S. like that. ?