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Oberon1313

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I'm not going to tell you about me. I'm going to tell you about you. You're submissive, but you don't attach a bunch of mystical bullshit to the fact. You know what turns you on, and what makes you feel alive, you want to explore that, not analyze it. You refer to yourself in the first person. You like your body, you like the effect it has on men. You want a man who will make you feel safely unsafe, who will keep you off balance but won't let you fall. You don't want to merely test your limits, you want to evolve. And you want your dom to evolve with you. You want there to be consequences to your actions, and a man who will make sure there are. You want a dom who can laugh, and make you laugh. You want a dom who doesn't respond to your ad, but waits for you to respond to his.
7/30/2008 8:09:05 PM
Someone commented on my profile "Willing to relocate?  But you're the dom, aren't they supposed to come to you?"

1 - I've lived in NYC all my life, but my ties (of family, friends) aren't necessarily here geographically.  I can see myself living elsewhere.  I love the South for example, I suspect there's a southern soul in this Yankee heart.  And I like the idea of conquering a new city.  Like Frank says, I've made it here, so I can make it anywhere.

2 - My potential partner may have stronger ties to her area.  While there are some doms who might need to take their sub/slave away from their support system in order to secure their hold. I have a bit more confidence than that.  Some might call it arrogance. <shrug> Tomato, tomato.

This doesn't mean I'm insisting on relocating either.  A lot of benefits to finding someone local.  I just don't limit my options.
7/29/2008 7:19:21 AM
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 Age: 34
 Bangkok, Thailand