Some people assume my OTrainer handle has something to do with "The Story of 'O'". I would love to train a woman like O, but that isn't where it came from. 

At that time many years ago, I was dating a woman that was coming out of an abusive relationship. She was 28 years old with 4 kids, but never had an orgasm. 

Her ex had religious issues, didn't believe in foreplay and didn't last long either. When we first together, she was faking it, which I figured out and pretty soon I had her coming at (my) will. So we started having "training" sessions. Coming on command, not coming without permission, coming in public, etc., etc. 

She still calls me her Big O Trainer.