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calypso13
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I have been developing an increasing interest in this lifestyle over the last five+ years and played with many subs. I have been a Dom all my life, but did not discover the lifestyle until a few years ago. Was in a vanilla marriage and always thought something was missing. But had obligations to raise children and completed that task.
So, now divorced I am searching for a full time female sub with whom I can play as well as someone whom I can guide, nurture and train. I have a preference for younger, 30-50 HWP woman who is bisexual or bi-curious. Relocation to the Houston area is a requirement.
I am well educated, well traveled and live in comfort. Prefer a non smoker who exercises regularly. I believe in a single God but don't ascribe to a single religion. Politically I am fiscally conservative while espousing liberal personal freedoms. She will be able to hold her own intellectually with opinions and ideas and will choose freely to give me her gift of submission. Eventually she will wear my collar and our relationship will become M/s and her limits will be my limits.
The difficulty with establishing a distant relationship is the necessity for trust to form. Trust is vital in D/s. I would like as trust deepens to move to a collar and all that means. I am not opposed in time to a poly house.
Hard limits are no animals, incest, or scat.
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Twice now women have tried to scam me for travel money with lures of faithful service and in the end pictures that when checked turn out to be professional models. When confronted I get this it's me, it's me. My former master took this and published them. Bologna! I am growing weary of the fakes here. No wonder I find so many subs/slaves that say they are just looking for friends and don't respond to my queries.
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This search is influencing the way I am thinking. I am finding so many women who search slavery, many without much preamble.
I am interested in a LTR based up D/s becoming M/s as quickly as trust will allow. But, I know that the real world intrudes and so there must be a basis of just like and caring in the vanilla sense between us. Some Chemistry if you will. This is why I want to begin any potential relationship with a simple conversation that may take a while. get to know each other over a series of IM talks - enough so that we get the feel for each other as people. We both need to answer the question is this someone I enjoy talking to and being with. Until I know that to be true, not much interested in face to face.
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I am aware that some are inundated with email. In part that is caused by provocative pictures or profiles that say nothing leaving the searcher to initiate contact in the 'blind'. As frustrating are those who say they are serious and then don't even have the courtesy to respond to a polite email inquiry.
I am as real as it gets on here. Not interested in someone who doesn't want me; a simple email response to that effect is polite. Once received I will endeavor not to contact you again.
For those who respond, I am taking my time here. I'm not interested in having many visits to my home. I'm trying to find the one that works by talking first. If that's not too your liking then you have little idea what a long term relationship is and that simple liking each other will hold it together long after tits have fallen.
I was in a very long relationship that went south. I'm interested in something will last. You cannot hurry that.
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This is a serious search. I am looking for someone much younger who wants a strong Daddy Dom to take charge of her life. In time I want this to become 24/7 and maybe even slavery as the relationship deepens.
I've had my kids. Don't care if she has some, but don't want anymore of my own. Besides, removed that option years and years ago surgically.
I'm a little frustrated as this, like too many sites, is filled with wannabes who have caused the serious subs to erect walls in defense. I don't blame them, but it makes it doubly difficult for those like me here.
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I begin my search for a submissive to join me. While pretty clear in my mind who she is I remain flexible enough to adjust for her. I expect this to take some time as I'm selective in demanding much and know that trust is the vital ingredient. It is also the hardest to find. So many wanna be's here. I hope I can find the gem among them.
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