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	Have you noticed your submissive side? Do you glimpse her in the mirror? Ever want to join her through the Looking-glass? Remember Alice: "In another moment Alice was through the glass and had jumped lightly down into the Looking-glass room... she began looking about and noticed that what could be seen from the old room was quite uninteresting but that all the rest was as different as possible." A D/s relationship is rather like Alice stepping into her mirror image world in that you will discover everything is as different as possible from your vanilla lifestyle and little is as it appears to an outsider looking in. Signs you have a submissive nature are: When you masturbate a favourite fantasy is begging and pleading. Encounters with Authority figures sometimes arouse you. These dont have to be cops or judges, the smallest whiff of authority can start you up. you enjoy being examined for compliant behaviour. you park outside a coffee shop to watch the Parking Attendant check the windscreen. When He finishes His inspection you feel a surge of approval. you let the time run out once just to watch yourself being punished with a ticket. you once loved playing with ropes. Always wanting to be taken prisoner and tied to the totem pole you still remember the smell of hemp rope and the slight burn on the wrist. Despite frequent reminders your first teenage sweetheart overlooked to send you a birthday card. So you wrote him a letter of apology. In a pet store you always notice the dog collars and leashes. Maybe the pretty little tartan ones attract you or the feel and smell of the real leather ones or just running a hand along the chain leashes as they hang on display. Boyfriend is puzzled as you own a goldfish. In Secretary, Lee agrees to have intercourse with her vanilla boyfriend Peter. Afterwards he says caringly "I dident hurt you, did I? Lee says "no". Its a "no" that speaks volumes but passes over most vanillas. you understood her meaning, immediately, no problem. There is a shopping mall you occasionally visit with an excalator on which men joining below can see up a short skirt as you reach the top. The wall glass lets you watch anyone looking but you leave quickly so they cant speak. There can be an aimlessness in your life without anybody to watch you and tell you what to do. Men go away as soon as you get interested in them. Its a lack of an anchor a tendency to drift into things you know wont suit. In your twenties you got engaged to a man because you dident want to hurt his feelings. Dating goes wrong - like the man who took you back to his place and produced a beautiful new black leather collar, leash and a ratan cane for an all fours walk to the bed. Only problem was that he wanted you to put the collar on him. Punishment is cathartic for you. It is closely linked to your idea of love as a sacrifice of self for the One. It helps you not to be a bad girl anymore and deep down you know you can be a bad girl. Stings and tingles are a draw for you. They are sensations you first got at school by pulling an elastic band on your wrist or against your inside thigh. It is how you dream of being spanked, all those stings and tingles resonating through your bottom. Accepting humiliation is connected with your desire to please. It would be easy to walk away from many humiliating situations but you choose not to if you want to please the Other. It is also linked to your idea of love as a sacrifice of self. If He tells you to sweep the stairs with a toothbrush you do it, not because it is your implement of choice but because you want Him to be pleased with you. If you feel for some of those situations you have a submissive twin somewhere inside you. Get in touch if you are interested in how to meet her, know her and enjoy her ... it is called the Beautiful Journey There will be more soon... meantime enjoy the Alice pics

1/1/2012 10:17:00 AM

surprised to be asked "What's Secretary?", then realised it is 10yrs ago.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YmSO07r_zTc

it contains fantastic humour and a happy ending. Also has a deeper meaning as a love story that accurately depicts a D/s that works and why it works. Most people miss its deepest symbolisms.

A great contrast is "Piano Teacher"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNCBd2DaSpc

in which D/s goes horribly wrong for a submissive who tries to bring a vanilla into her world. Also shows how to enhance your scenes with Schubert piano music ;-)

Am happy to chat about these or other movies.

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