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Hey. I'm an only-in-the-bedroom dom looking for independent, intelligent, feminist, progressive, punk or alternative women who are into art, politics, good conversation, and (once in bed) consensual and safe hard D/s play. I'm particularly interested in combining leftist and anti-oppression theory with kink: using anti-oppression theory to inform kink, via investigations into how power play can fight patriarchy/captialism, and using kink to inform activism, via consent practice, etc. Outside of the bedroom, my keywords are: non-profit work, progressive activism, gaming, urban exploration, art, bicycling, and political conversations. Inside the bedroom: I'm a very particular sort of dom. I can't afford to dom via consumerism (and the idea is abhorrent to me even if I could afford it). In other words, I don't have a closet full of expensive toys, leather floggers, or other equipment. Neither do I have a fancy loft for us to lounge in while I pour champagne on you. I live in a small, warmly-lit room in a crumbling Victorian with a few progressive roommates. I'm also not an object-focused dom (I don't have any material or costume fetishes in particular), though I am lightly experienced with rope. Most of my domination revolves around power play, physical control, humiliation, cock worship, cock slapping, dirty talk, begging, teasing/denial, objectification, rape fantasy, forced oral sex, hair pulling, spit play, cum play, Daddy play, fighting/wrestling, rough sex, hair pulling, blindfolds and gags, light-heavy choking, and light-heavy impact play, including spanking and belt strikes. Those aren't all mandatory, they're just things that have worked for me in the past. I'm pretty complicated sexually (in terms of how my body works and what it needs), so I like to move slowly, and establish trust, rhythms, and negotiated careful consent before getting too intense. I don't identify as a sadist; what turns me on about impact play is not the pain per se, but the shock/aggression/rawness of the process. I love when the dom/sub dynamic uses struggle/pain/panic/fear as a way to open up spaces of emotional closeness. I've been in only open relationships for the past four years or so. Right now I don't have a partner; I'm dating one person and have space in my schedule because another person I was seeing just moved away. I'm D/D free and always use condoms for any non-oral penetration. I have no idea if this site is effective, nor if anyone on it is real as opposed to a scam or sex worker (nothing at all against sex workers, of course, but that's not what I'm looking for right now). So if you're attracted to me and think we'd line up, message me. --- A

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ladyspeckles
 
 Age: 31
 Portland, Texas