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Are you man enough to be my wife's submissive boy toy?

My wife is the sexiest woman I have ever known. She is intelligent, funny, sweet, compassionate, and interesting. She also has an insatiable sex drive. I couldn't be happier. We have always been open to almost anything sexual, and through our adventures we have discovered that there is a part of her that enjoys dominating and using a certain kind of submissive man. That is what we are looking for now.

MY WIFE: As I mentioned before, she has many qualities. Physically, she is short and curvy (not fat!). Early 40s, blond hair, blue eyes. Very pretty. She has large breasts, and a pretty little pink pussy, freshly shaven below, with a sweet triangle of delicate golden pubes above. She is a very vocal lover, and multi orgasmic. She also squirts when properly stimulated. As a Domme, she is stern and particular about what she wants (see below). She is not mean, but will not tolerate subs who try to make playtime about them -- it is about her and her needs!

YOU: You are on the taller side (at least 5-10), and athletic/muscular. It is ok if you are a few pounds overweight, especially the kind of extra weight a former athlete sometimes acquires, but please don't be super overweight. You should be between 35 and 55 years old. You should be masculine. Attractiveness is a pretty subjective thing, but you should be better looking than average. You should have a larger than average sized cock, and it should be circumsized. I hesitate to state a specific cock size, since so many men seem to have particular trouble in measuring accurately! Many has been the guy who declares himself to have a 7 incher that turns out to be closer to a 5 incher. So, be honest with us and with yourself. We know you can't help how large you are, and there are plenty of woman out there that love smaller cocks or don't care. As for my wife, she simply needs cocks on the larger size. If you insist on a specific number, let's say that you need to be no smaller than 6 inches, as measured from the base of your hard cock, where it meets your abdomen. Do NOT measure from your asshole!

Ok, I guess I got a little worked up about cock size. . . Sorry! Other features we want you to have: you need to be completely disease free. No STD's. You need not to use drugs (420 is ok, but not while with us). You need to be genuinely submissive, not just passing yourself off as submissive in order to get laid. You need to be focused on my wife and her needs, to the complete subordination of your own needs. You need to be pleasantly conversational until play starts, then you need to speak as little as possible, preferably only when you are directed to by my wife.

We don't care if you are married, but you need to be able to host, preferable in your home, but a room at an upscale hotel may work as well, if you turn out to be the right guy in other ways. You need to be available on two to three Friday or Saturday nights per month (see Scenario below). You need to host in one of the following cities: Seal Beach, Huntington Beach, Fountain Valley, Costa Mesa, Newport Beach, or Irvine. Anything else is too far away and inconvenient.

SCENARIO: two to three times a month, on a Friday or Saturday evening, my wife will arrange to come and play with you. Bdsm-wise, activities will be on the light side: hair pulling, spanking, light paddling and flogging, sometimes with a crop, and light duty rope play. You will spend a great deal of time licking her pussy and swallowing as much of her squiring juices as you can (good luck!). When she is ready and instructs you to do so, you will put on a condom and fuck her hard and deep. You will not cum without permission. If your relationship advances properly, she will use toys on your ass, perhaps even a strap-on to fuck you. Do not enter into playtime with expectations - she and she alone will decide how you will play. She is not going to suck your cock. You are not going to fuck her ass.

After using you to her satisfaction (anywhere from 90 minutes to 4 or more hours) she will leave. You will then wait to hear from her again. Initially, we will correspond only through email, but eventually we might allow you to have text message access to her. Do not abuse this. All texting should be initiated by her. She can't have subs pestering her all the time. Note: you also should not be the jealous type. She will, of course, give all priority to me, and she also has several non-subbie lovers. Moreover, you will not be her only submissive. Our aim is for her to have a stable of 3 to 4 boy toys that she uses on a somewhat rotational basis for Friday and Saturday night play time.

From time to time, I will be present during playtime. I may chose to play with my wife while she uses you. While not homophobic, I am completely straight, and will not be interested in any sexual contact with you.

OTHER:

I realize that these are pretty specific criteria. Our experience has been that we receive so many responses that we need to focus. Please do not set yourself up for disappointment by responding when you do not fit the criteria. Like us, you want to find happiness and satisfaction. If you do not fit the profile we have described, you will be disappointed and so will we.
When replying to or contacting us, please take the time to address how you meet the specific criteria we have set forth. A picture will ultimately be required before we meet you, but you don't have to provide it in your initial contact. NOTE: While not our primary objective, we also enjoy playing together as a couple from time to time with submissive women and submissive couples. If you would be interested in us in this context, an email from you would be very welcome.
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 Age: 26
 United Kingdom