Please have the respect to attach a picture when you contact me.  I appreciate your desire to want to be discreet; however, this is also about a physical attaction.  If there is no attraction, there is no connection.  I will still reply if not interested....because I may be a dom, but I am respectful.

So let me make this clear since it seems to be the question of the day.  My home is my castle and you are not going to just move right in.  You may get invited, but you will earn that right.  Be respectful.  I have a maid who cleans.  I may let you help one day.

A fine glass of wine and a good western or mobster movie.  If I had a good cigar, my night would be complete.