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| Dominant seeks submissive
As strange as it seems around here, I'm not into the "scene". I don't have any real interest in playing with random people, hanging out at BDSM parties or running a poly household. I'm a pretty private person and I guess I'm just one of those fiercely loyal relationship kind of guys and I suppose that makes me a bit of an anomaly around here.
I am looking for a submissive, a true submissive, someone that seeks to be dominated, to give themselves to another, someone for whom it isn't just a sexual thing, a bit of kink on the weekend.
I am looking for a single girl who wishes to devote herself to a single Dom. I portray a very vanilla face to the world and I am looking for the same in my girl. My life is my own and my girl will share that under my rules.
I am strict, and have high standards, but for a good girl they are not hard to fulfill. Discipline is a part of who we are, we both require it (though from different aspects), and punishment is a necessary part of this, but cruel is something that I am not. Any punishment I deem necessary is never conducted in anger and is part of a structure that promotes learning and improvement. After all, I want a girl who will always strive to improve in everything she does, not just in her service to me.
I may come off as a bit of an enigma at times, a little hard to read for some, but I really do wear my heart on my sleeve. It isn't difficult to read my moods and I am honest (some say a little too much) and communicative. That needs to be the foundation, both ways, of any relationship. It's really the only way that there can be trust, and for people like us, trust is key.
I am looking for someone who is honest and loyal, affectionate and obedient, someone that I can spoil and cherish and protect, someone who will be my world as I will be theirs. Sounds like a lot to ask, but I've never been one to settle.
I value intelligence and am not looking for a doormat. Yes you will do what you are told, but I want to hear and value your opinion. I am looking for a relationship in the long term so there has to be more than shared kinks.
I have zero interest in bloodplay, scat, needles or diapers. I also have no interest in someone who smokes, takes drugs or does not look after themselves. How can you serve and take care of someone else, if you cannot take care of yourself?
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