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	nvrbeenwhi


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	I am new to the domination scene, and am looking for a woman to take control of me and show me the pleasures that can be had in being a submissive. I want to find a woman that is experienced in domination. Seeing as how I am new to being a submissive and have never been a dominate I think it is best that I have an experienced Domme. I have a very open mind and am willing try many things. With that being said I have no problem making new friends. If you message me I will have the common decency to reply. I would hope for the same from you. At little about myself. I love to laugh & make others laugh. I have a great sense of humor & have been described as goofy. If you don't have a sense of humor & can't laugh then don't bother me. I don't even enjoy talking to people who can't laugh. I tend to laugh too much though. I tend to laugh to cover up the amount of pain I am in. Like I said I love to laugh. I live in the Memphis area and have no desire to move. I am not looking for a long term relationship at least in the traditional sense. I am not looking to meet someone with the hopes of eventually moving in with them. I don't mind a one time encounter, but if I find someone I would like to play with many times over that would not be a completely bad thing. I am not looking for someone to spend my every waking moment with. What I do want is something discrete. No one in my life knows that I'm into Bondage and Submission and I prefer to keep it that way.

11/24/2013 3:56:07 PM

Ok so after my first BDSM experience last night the jury is still out. I enjoyed some of it and some of it I didn't enjoy. Honestly I wasn't sure what to expect going in. The more I think about it though the more I lean towards BDSM isn't for me. I don't regret trying it. I'm glad I did find someone that was willing to help me explore that particular fantasy of mine.

10/19/2013 10:43:46 PM

So tonight it dawned on me why I never go anywhere. I can blame my work all I want, working too much during the week. In the end though I'm indecisive and a recluse.

10/18/2013 12:22:51 AM

wow ok today was a real good day at work. Let me explain my job to you. I work for a major shipping company. My job is to goto different customer locations and pick up their freight. This one location I've been trying to get a job at for years practically offered me a job tonight. I was told by a person with hiring authority that he wanted to interview me for the next job that came available. He then told me he was going to let me know when the next job was posted. If I got hired on there I could be making the same amount as I am now and not working near as hard.

10/17/2013 1:53:09 PM

As I thought this person claiming to be a Domme is fake. I knew if I drug it out long enough I would find out the end game. It was just a ploy to get me to sign up on some other pay site.

10/17/2013 12:08:57 AM

Well today I was contacted by someone from another site claiming to be a Domme. I'm not sure about "her". I say it like that because I have this nagging feeling it is some how a scam of some sort. I am going to play it out and see what happens, but I'm not holding my breath on this one.

The main thing that is setting off alram bells is she claims to be out of state but is willing to travel here to Memphis. I'm just waiting for the catch. "If I am going to come see you I need you to send me some money for gas, or hotel room, or whatever"

10/16/2013 1:35:22 AM

I have now accepted the fact that if I want to be someone's submissive, to determine if I like that or not, I am going to have to pay. This is fine. Although, I do not want someone who is strictly in this for the money, and will bleed as much money as they can out of me. I will compensate you for your time I have no problem with that.

10/13/2013 9:16:17 PM

I am back and forth on whether or not I want to post a photo. On one hand if I post it you will know what I look like and that will help you decide if I am right for you. On the other what if someone I know sees the photo? I want no one in my personal life to know about this particular fetish of mine.

I may just take a body photo tomorrow. Still debating that.

10/13/2013 7:47:01 PM

As I lay here in my bed this night I think how nice it would be to meet a female who is willing to take control of me. Alas as I search I become disheartened as most of what I find are women offering their "services" for a price. Why is it I can not find a woman who does this for pleasure and not money? I do not wish to be a slave as I do have boundaries. They are not many, but they are there. I have a very open mind and am willing to try almost anything once. If you were to ask what my fantasy is this is what I would tell you. As I knock at the door she opens it immediately grabbing me and taking control. As she pulls me in she shuts the door. Now the door is closed she tells me what she would have me do. Eventually I will end up tied to her bed where she continues to tease and control me. It would end with her pegging me. Alas I lay here and wonder "Will this ever come to be?"