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Nurturingbytch

Just thought I would put my toes in the water again--- seeking drama free partners.


True joy comes in this lifestyle when you find the right partners to feed your hunger.

The search requires honest examination within yourself and with those whom you wish to connect.

D/s relationships, by nature of the extreme sensation involved, have to be based on trust and open communication.

if you do not know your own needs then how can we determine if you satisfy ours?

Our needs? First and foremost you must realize you are approaching a dominant couple.

I am blessed to have Asmodeus, an incredibly powerful male dominant as my partner. And he has me. Our relationship is primary and all playmates, submissives, toys, slaves, must fit around what we have created betweeen us.

I realize that is not an easy thing for a submissive soul to accept. But--- if you understand your role in our life ---- is to improve it, on a variety of levels, we offer a wonderfully wicked world.

Not only are we strong, powerful, sensual, experienced; but we have toys, equipment, a personal dungeon, and a network of friends, and clubs, that would be open to you, once you earned the right be represent us.

It is not a simple journey to serve us. But if you feel you are interested you may approach me either via a PM, or in a chatroom. I am always willing to chat with like minded folk who have bdsm in their souls.

Safe journey,

Ro, the Nuturingbytch
7/20/2008 8:36:00 PM

Just back from a business trip to Kansas.  Using this site I found a wonderful submissive soul to escort me about the area.  He was sweet, punctual, gentlemanly, and hungry to be in the presence of a Domina. 

 It saddens me that such a sincere submissive man has such  a tough time finding the right One.  I wish you the best K.

12/12/2004 10:35:19 AM

This is my  Domina Manifesto 

I have been considering this doctrine for quite some time and think it will be simpler for all concerned if I publish my intentions.

If you agree with my sentiments feel free to contact me for an audience.  If you consider me harsh or unsentimental feel free to keep your opinion to yourself. 

Realize before you approach my dungeon and my life that you will never be first priority.  I have my life partner and the relationship we have comes before any other. 

Thus, it would be best if you have a life outside of submission.  If you are married and need discretion I can offer that. However, marks, alibi’s, and getting busted are on your own head. If you are single, you might want to put this energy toward finding your own soul mate, not directing it toward serving where you will never be first place.

Being a Mistress is not the foundation of my being, it is a component. Sometimes I want center stage and sometimes I want shadows.  Whoever kneels beside me accepts I choose our destination.  I choose what I need from you, I choose when I accept your service, and I choose where we venture in this world of black roses and thorns.

...There are days to wear leather thigh high boots and days to wear fuzzy slippers
...There are nights to attend social events and accept the spotlight, and nights to stay in and watch a DVD
…..There are times to curl a single tail around a willing back and times to curl around a book

There is more to dominance than quirts, whips, floggers, riding crops, canes and paddles, You will tremble awaiting what next my diabolical minds devises for us.  While I am a physical impact player, I can control you so subtly that you will wonder just when you became addicted to my voice. 

I will not force you to submit to me.  Why would I want someone in my presence that must be forced?  It’s not my nature to coerce, only to accept what is sincerely offered.   If I am the haven you seek to explore the feelings and sensations of submission why would I need to punish you? Therefore, the only punishment you will receive from my hands, would be the loss of their proximately. Break my rules, and you will be banished.

I know you are hungry to find your soul mate, your perfect Mistress, or even the TOP of your dreams but be aware, I am not that person. if for no other reason than you won't ever be THAT important to me.
 
Any slaves/subs/toys/playmates that enters our world are here to enhance it, but they
are not critical.  You may not see me for days and then again I may request your service as often as you can escape the mundane world.  When you are at my feet is up to me. It’s all up to me.

If I offer not what you seek, no harm no foul, simply continue to the next profile and I wish you well.  If what I have written strikes a chord with you please contact me here..

 Of course if you live more than 50 miles from the Philadelphia area it would be impossible to explore this, so don't waste your time or mine.
I will no longer answer supplicants who approach from outside the radius imposed.