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| Well, a little about me.
I am a 40 year old professional man, as successful in his career as he is in life. I am athletic, fit, and reasonably attractive, but that is certainly a matter of opinion. Although I have been in the lifestyle (to one extent or another) for most of my life, it does not dictate my life. I'm a normal guy, with normal interests and normal hobbies, just with a particularly interesting side. D/s and BDSM is extremely important to me, but I don't generally take myself too seriously about it.. you will never see me marching around in assless chaps barking orders.
My D/s history has evolved over the years, starting with simply an abundance of confidence and the nature to lead when I was younger, to the experienced Master I am now. Although you would find me to be a compassionate and understanding Master, you will also find me to have high expectations and to be very strict. I'm the sort of Master that doesn't necessarily expect you read my mind, but I do expect you to anticipate and act accordingly.
To me, D/s and M/s goes beyond simple sex and play. It's a more involved dynamic that is based in trust, understanding, and a deeply rooted desire to either serve, or teach, depending on the point of view. I have a great love of bondage and percussion play, sensory deprivation, objectification, high protocol, forced orgasms/orgasm denial, etc. Over the years, I have enjoyed dynamics with women that ranged from being simple bedroom submissives, to those that identified as being 24x7 TPE slaves.
What am I seeking? Well.. time will tell. I am a realist at heart, and understand that it's unrealistic to set expectations too high, as life usually has other ideas for us. I will say though that my goal is to find the perfect sub/slave.. someone who truly feels the same way about the lifestyle as I, and is my intellectual equal.
I should probably qualify the whole "slave/sub" thing, as it's come up a couple of times. To me, these are labels that are horribly inexact and difficult to define. If you ask 10 different people what their perception of a slave is, or what a sub is, you're likely to get 10 different answers. For me, it's more about the dynamic between two people, regardless of what labels can be applied to it.
I do have pictures to share, and am happy doing so, however only privately. I do have a non-kinky life that I choose to keep separate from my kinky-self, and if we talk, I'm happy to discuss my requirements for privacy.
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