Upon further self-reflection, I've come to the realization that what I really desire and need within this realm is a relationship with an emphasis on discipline (mental) and sadism as far as broad categories go. I've come to terms with the fact I have very little interest in the masochistic aspects of this lifestyle as one could probably glean from my previous journal entry.
This definitely makes my search for my Dom more challenging since a focus on physical pain appears to be the norm of desire here...I'm grateful to many I've spoken with in at all being a part of this self-discovery process...let's see what happens... |