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	I’ve decided to rewrite my profile. I am a submissive that can be quite feisty. Sometimes I am defiant because that seems to be a part of my personality. Sometimes I am defiant because I look forward to the results of such behavior. I am a professional in the working world and just like many of you no one would ever suspect that I lean towards “the dark side” and that I am the sexual creature that I am. I am generally a shy and quiet person. I am completely sane, well maybe not “completely”, relatively attractive person, very loyal, trustworthy, meticulous, easy going, romantic and passionate person. I have a lot to offer the right person. My qualities, submission and openness will be my gift to you. I’m looking for a very specific man/D. As with you there are certain qualities that you are looking for in a sub. I am no different so please do not take what I want as a list of demands or as a selfish point of view. I'm looking for someone who is different. Am I hoping for something that is impossible? I've had it before. I can have it again. I am looking for a D that is a natural D. I don't want someone who thinks that they put on a hat and suddenly become a D and should be respected as one. I don't want someone who throws jargon around "Master", "Sir", "My Lord". To me, that is just someone skating on an ego. I want my D to be so secure in who and what he is that he doesn't need to showboat it in any circumstance. I'm looking for someone who would embrace love, if and I mean IF it came our way. I want a D that uses "genteel force". I want someone that wants to be with me, talk to me, email me, IM with me. I want a Gentleman who wants to mix the "vanilla" with the BDSM where we would enjoy time together outside of the bedroom. I want a passionionate and hopeful romantic. You must have an incredible sense of humor. If the mutual respect, caring, consideration, trust and chemistry are there, my submission to you will fall right into place. It will not have to be forced. What I have briefly described to you above I've had. It exists. And it works. The ebb and flow is quite lovely. I'm in a marriage that has nothing. And I mean Nothing! No love. No Sex (for a zillion years now). No intimacy. No share of finances or responsibility. We cohabitate together and it ends there. I discovered my submissive side about 2 years ago and it's been an evolution and will continue to be so. I hope to find someone that will help me to positively develop my subbie side, who will mentor me, be a friend and a positive entity in my life. I am open to being in love in a committed LTR relationship. Please approach me with some class. I am far from being a prude but please don’t approach me with all the nasty things you want to do to me. The building of this kind of relationship is a process and both party’s senses are heightened. Please be gentlemanly and polite. Once we have a connection, talk on the phone or meet, we can get into all the gory details of my submission to you and my limits. For now, please be content with looking over my list of interests. I am a real person. Please don’t play with me; don’t be a player or a fake. Fakes, I’ve been lucky enough to peg you after ½ of an IM session. I prefer someone who is experienced since I feel that I am not in the position to train someone who is a beginner. I believe I would be of a disservice to you. Please be geographically close to me and be willing to come down by me. I will do all that I can to compromise with you and help you out with this. But for now the bulk of the traveling will fall upon you. Please be height/weight proportionate or at least carry your weight well. My body is far from perfect but I do try to take care of myself. Thank you for reading and I look forward to hearing from you.

6/20/2011 5:02:54 PM

In your dreams, hon. It's out of the realm of probability. LOL, you don't stand a chance.

6/14/2011 6:44:46 PM

Talk about the luck of the Irish. I am, for once, one lucky lady! Who says persistence doesn't pay?

6/1/2011 2:52:45 PM

I just had a wonderful week's vacation to Mexico. 80 degrees during the day, 60 degrees at night, sunny, wonderful people, fabulous food, great parties (oh the tequila!) but now it's back to the real-life grind! I hope everyone had a great Memorial Day Weekend! I know I did!!!!

5/24/2011 7:25:39 PM

I'm all warm and fuzzy today. Gee, I wonder why ;)

5/10/2011 5:24:08 PM

My journey is beginning and I'm so excited!!!!!

1/15/2011 9:52:12 AM

Sorry, but I don't respond to one-liners.

11/3/2010 6:37:11 PM

People have no class.

11/3/2010 6:05:05 PM

I am here looking for friends and A possible play partner, nothing more. I am "emotionally" collared but he has not "physically" collared me because of the geographic distance (2 hours) between us. However, he realizes that my physical needs cannot be totally met so he will give me his blessings if I just happen to find someone that I want to play with however he needs to accept the situation as it is. I'm not a promiscous person so if I play, it will be with one partner only. Happy travels.

4/22/2010 6:23:10 PM

I believed it before but I REALLY believe it now: Lies and manipulation will never get you any place that's good. They are purely destructive. Honesty IS the best policy.

4/15/2010 3:05:32 PM

Still looking!!!! Is there anyone out there who has a huge heart, is kind, successful, endearing, REAL and DRAMA FREE!!!!! ?

2/21/2010 2:25:30 PM

I was considering him and he wanted me however it simply didn't work out. So if you are wondering where I've been, that's where I was. It was out of respect that I halted my search. But it resumes, here and now and I am back to looking for "the one". Who's game?

P.S. I appreciate the interest of those across the country but I am not looking for a cyber affair. Please be local, willing and able to travel.

P.S.S. Be height/weight proportionate. My body is far from perfect and I can appreciate a nice looking, heavy guy. However I'm just not into being intimate with someone who is too overweight. Sorry I mean no offense!!!

1/14/2010 2:39:48 PM

My profile will soon be revised but not until I've had a chance to communicate with a person that has a deep interest in me.

I'm very happy with my position right now, but it has a twist. Stay tuned!

11/28/2009 4:26:33 PM

Where are you Diamond in Rough? Come to me for I am calling you, still.

11/19/2009 2:34:08 PM

Back to square one. Remember these adjectives:

1. Committed
2. Dependable
3. Passionate
4. Consistent
5. Friendly
6. Funny
7. Experienced
8. Honest
9. Very Communicative
10. Compassionate
11. Respectful

This will all be returned to you ten-fold and then some. We are kindred spirits and I hope that we find each other soon.

11/18/2009 2:55:11 PM

My bad. Somehow the ball made it into the stands. Guess I'll have to get myself another ball.

11/8/2009 7:10:30 AM

Figured that'd get ya!!

11/7/2009 5:11:23 PM

But I do wonder something. Why do D's disappear and not make contact on weekends?

11/7/2009 1:15:21 PM

Okay I punted and the special teams are pretty good. Will they score a touchdown?

11/5/2009 5:59:40 PM

Drop back and punt, huh?

10/27/2009 7:23:41 PM

Okay, so what now?

10/24/2009 11:40:50 AM

Oliviatk, if I interest you, reach out...

10/24/2009 10:40:37 AM

I was thinking about something and it was prompted by a beautiful, lesiban domme that has viewed my profile several times.
I haven't ventured into a domme because I hear that they are very sadistical, like to name call etc.

Is this true?

10/23/2009 1:33:47 PM

Okay, I'm from Mars and things on planet earth sure are different than what I'm used to. Can't quite get the hang of it. Yikes. This is almost scary. Vodka Tonic anyone?

10/23/2009 11:13:23 AM

What is a sub supposed to look like? Is there a stereotype?

10/17/2009 6:28:53 PM

Okay. Question.

What comes first?

Obedience comes with trust?

Or does trust come with obedience?

10/15/2009 2:37:38 PM

I was preoccupied zeroing in on a few possibilities (well one really) but they (he)have (did) not panned (pan) out.

Back to square one. Again.

10/6/2009 2:13:32 PM

Okay, I'm calm and breathing normally again.

Someone just shot me a message that I ought to develop my Domme side, that I'm too alpha to be a sub.

So very many profiles on this site want a woman with brains, a woman who knows what she wants, is communicative and can think on her own two feet. So why is it that this is what I'm doing and what I am that I'm too alpha to be a sub?

I'm a gem of a person. I'm kind, sincere, honest, trustworthy and most of all I am not here to play games or hurt anyone.

I'm holding out until I find "the one" that I click with and that clicks with me. And when that happens....

Trust me. I'm as submissive as they come.

10/6/2009 11:55:57 AM

Please note:

1. I CAN'T. at this time. travel any distance to meet you. I will do the best to accomodate you but for the most part you will need to come to me. If you can't do this!!! move on to someone who is geographically feasible.

2. If YOU are married and can't devote enough time to establish a close, meaningful relationship with me? STAY AWAY! I'm not needy but meeting once in awhile just doesn't cut it.

3. Please take no offense. This is just a preference but I prefer a caucasion man.

The courtship will not contain my being submissive to you or your whims. But when I find the one and the right one finds me, he will be very pleased with me and my submission. I assure you.

I'm beginning to wonder if I would make a better Domme than half of you supposed D's out there!!!!

10/6/2009 11:10:51 AM

Okay, this is an all time low and you know who you are.

If you have any problem at all with me being married, STAY AWAY FROM ME!!!

Please know your mind. If my being married creates the slightest twinge of doubt please move on to someone who is more suitable for you.

10/3/2009 9:33:23 PM

I think it's time for me to take a break from this. Here is what I'm finding:

1. Married men who end up not having time to have a quality-type D/s relationship.
2. Men who contact me from North Jersey, New York, Maryland, Virginia and then realize that they're too far away to have anything regular. READ THE PROFILE!!!
3. Men who don't feel that this type of relationship requires nurturing, contact to develop the relationship and trust. You hear from them for 2 days then not for 3, 4 or 5.
4. Men who are not height/weight proportionate. Again!! READ THE PROFILE!!!
5. I almost forgot...the guys that are way too young. I'm talking 23, 20, 25. How much can you have possibly learned about D/s being that young? I'm just not interested in someone this young. I'm sorry!!!

I can't believe how absolutely frustrating this is. Once again, I'm banging my head against the wall.

10/2/2009 4:45:04 PM

The only thing I have to say is "Oh Boy, Oh Boy, Oh Boy, Oh Boy"...I'm dumbfounded.

9/28/2009 9:06:47 AM

Also...If you live more than 45 minutes away from me tell me in your message how you see the logistics of meeting playing out. Don't bother me, please, if you live out of the tri-state area. If you live in Illinois, Maryland, California, Maine etc...your message will be deleted. Thanks.

9/28/2009 6:25:51 AM

Here's the deal. I'm tired of having my time wasted on people who aren't serious in their pursuit. Don't waste my time. My time is precious. If you want to play games there are plenty of people on this site and others that you can toy with. If you contact me one line messages are not going to provoke a response from me. It only shows me that you don't have the time or energy to write something that will catch my interest and lead to a response from me.

9/27/2009 5:43:20 PM

Still nothing. People are full of promises but only full of them for they are nothing real. Still looking for that needle in the haystack. If we have started a dialog and you are interested, grab this gem, make a charm and wear it around your neck. Don't throw it away for you don't know its value.

9/24/2009 11:17:09 AM

Just when I thought I had it, or was close. Kabam. Back to the drawing board. You know who you are!!!!

9/23/2009 4:10:27 PM

Okay, now we're getting somewhere. I think.

9/21/2009 11:05:30 AM

Yet another day of banging my head against the wall. Is there someone out there that wrote to me and I didn't write back and I should have? Am I missing something or someone? I don't want someone who has to be in D mode during a normal conversation? Why is that necessary? I just don't f'n get it! Come on!!! There has to be someone out there that I am worthy of and that is worthy of me!!! Give me who you are. Don't play a role. If you do that, be yourself, and there's a connection my gift will come naturally to you... If you're playing a role, I will know it, see through it and the connection will be cut and possibiities cut down to nothing.

9/19/2009 8:43:14 PM

This is proving to be a harrowing experience. I've talked to quite a few people but no meetings yet. Maybe once I meet someone in person things will fall together. There is potential there.

I have found that many men are thoroughly impressed with themselves. Trust me there's nothing wrong with confidence. I dig confidence but to constantly talk about themselves and what a fantastic person they are is boring and annoying. Come on guys!!! There has to be a good-humored, confident, strong, passionate, open, honest real life dom out there somewhere. Is it my profile? Should I change it?

9/16/2009 3:19:10 PM

And I forgot...be geographically feasible and I don't mind big men as long as you carry it well.