Hello to everyone, I am fairly new to all of this so I am seeking guidance from anyone who can give it to me. Currently I am looking for female submissive foremost and dominants secondly for advice and help. I haven’t much experience but I would like to learn how to be as safe as I can. I am very passionate and understanding. I do not consider myself to be that extreme of a dominant but I would consider anything that my submissive would be into. The way I see it, the Dom and sub are two parts of an equal entity where as the Dom holds the authority and administers pain and pleasured while loving his submissive. The submissive on the other hand sets the rules (limits) and gives submission as a gift to the dominant. Neither can have what they desire without the other. While the Dom is in control, he only has that control because the sub allows him to have it.

What I seek is friendship first, then submission if things work out between us. I enjoy normal things such as long walks, going to the movies, studying and school, and mostly company. Education is important to me, and I would like it to be high on your priority list as well. This doesn’t have to mean school, but it does mean the desire to better you.

I will probably add more later, but this is a start.

As for sexual topics, I will discuss that in a one on one basis via chat.

Please, if you have Yahoo Messenger, include your ID name. A picture would be nice too, but I understand if you are shy as I am as well.

Pictures get my attention first though…..

I am very understanding and easy to get along with………..until the situation requires differently (wink wink)

Please call me Sir until otherwise…..