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UPDATE: I'm looking to meet another switch. I feel this would be the best way to explore both my dom and sub sides. I guess I would feel more comfortable with the option to try both. But I'm definitely still open to meeting a Domme or Sub.
Hello, I'm new here, but I've been interested in the lifestyle for quite some time. Bondage has always intrigued me and turned me on like nothing else. And the thought of being out of control and at the mercy of a strict domme is intoxicating. However, I can be a bit of a challenge, as when I am pushed, my instinct is to push back. So I also have a dominant side that is dying to break out.
I have no experience at all, but I am very open minded and willing to try anything once. I'm looking to chat, meet new people, and learn somethings. I'd like to find an experienced femdom to show me the ropes. (But I'd be happy to talk with anyone)
For professional/privacy reasons, my pictures don't show my face. However, I'd be more than happy to send you a face pic or anything else upon request.
In public life I am a leader. I'm always in control and I know what I want and how to get things done. But in private I need to give up that control. I want and need someone to take that control away and tell me what to do, to impose their will on me. I'm not looking for anything live-in or 24/7. I'm not necessarily even looking for something long term at the moment (but I'm open to that if I meet the right person). I'm looking to talk and learn and then meet up and experience it. I guess I'm looking for a scene/play partner? I really need to meet in real life, I'm horribly stubborn and difficult online. I need a dominant who can take control from me, make me helpless, don't let me make choices, and not give that control back until the session has ended.
So if you're going to top me, just be prepared that I can be a challenge.
I can't really say for sure what I like or don't like, because I haven't really tried anything. That being said, I find pain to be a bit of a turn on, but I am not sure what my tolerance levels are. I love the thought of being restrained and helpless. I'm keeping an open mind and I'm will to try just about anything.
I am NOT looking for financial domination.
I am NOT looking for anything online. We can start there, but I can only really be dominated in person. We have to be able to meet for this to work.
On the other hand, because I'm naturally assertive and stubborn, I have to list myself as a switch because I definitely have a dominant side/tendancies. And I would love to explore that side as well.
So feel free to talk to me. I'll talk to anyone about anything. I tend to be shy, so if feel free to take the initiative and start a conversation. If I check out profile, I'd be very happy to hear from you.
Here's a little about me:
I'm finishing up my third year of Electrical Engineering at the University of Oklahoma.
So during the school year, I am of course in Norman, OK.
I'm originally from Green Bay, WI. I attend OU on an academic scholarship (I tell you that to answer the question of "How did you end up so far from home?")
I'm in Madison for the summer for an internship, but I'll spend some time up in Green Bay as well.
I have a car, so I'm pretty free to travel around the state.
I've practiced tae kwon do since I was 6, and I am a third degree black belt.
I've played rec league soccer since I was 4 and still love to play when I can.
I did theater in high school. Acting and tech. I haven't acted in quite some time, but I still dabble in lighting and sound when I get the chance.
I love to read, and am currently working through "A Song of Ice and Fire" series by George R.R. Martin (I hightly recommend it!)
I love technology and electronics (if you hadn't guessed that already) and I can fix just about anything electronic. (and generally enjoy fixing things too).
I'm also pretty handy at fixing non-electronic things too. I really like working with my hands.
I'm a bit of an introvert, in that I do better in small groups, or in larger groups if I have a smaller group of people I know.
This is also why I'm not usually one for initiating conversations with people I don't know.
I'm a great listener!
I'm friendly and very open minded. So, anyone, please, send me a message and pull me out of my shell :)
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