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Finally got on here to add to this profile. Looking for an extremely submissive sub or a slave. I have been here before years ago. And am looking again. I think the best way for me to describe myself and what I am looking for is to describe my opinion on real life BDSM. First I don't believe that submission is a gift. The only gift is that a M/s or D/s have made a commitment to have a relationship together. Aside from that submission is not a gift. A switch is not a real submissive. A switch can be submissive, but not a submissive. Most subs are very similar to switches. Some are real subs and some are playing at being submissive. If you are dominant in your day to day life and are sexually submissive then you are just that. Sexually submissive. Not a submissive. Real life subs and slaves are rare. A real submissive will have slave like tendencies. A real sub/slave doesn't choose to be submissive. They were either born that way or over years they became submissive. Most likely from the way they were brought up from a child. I don't think you can learn or be trained to be a submissive. Either you are or you are not. You can learn about yourself and why you are the way you are. You can learn how to be a better submissive to please your Master or Dom. Being a sub/slave isn't something you will learn. It is something that you are. Reading a book about vampires doesn't make you a vampire. Now for me and other Dominants/Masters. Same goes for me. I am what I am. I didn't become Dominant from reading books. Sure I have read books. I read them because I am a seeker of information. I wanted to learn why I needed a certain type of woman in order to make a relationship work. I Dominant but not a control freak. Control freaks are usually Dominant because of low self esteem. Lack of trust and lack of control in their life so they need to control someone. They are usually abusive when abuse is not needed. They often control with intimidation and fear. I am not this way. I am a Leader. I try to lead by example. But I am not perfect. I will submit to no one, even if it kills me. I will not submit. Maybe I am stubborn. My opinion on 24/7 relationships is that they can be done. It depends on the people involved. It can happen in varying degrees. I don't believe that someone wants to be strung up for 8 plus hours while their Master is at work. Besides this would cut off circulation and end up losing body parts. But some things can be done. A bdsm relationship for me is mostly mental. Sex is very important. But it isn't all about the sex for me.
My Ideal Person: If you read above you already know what type of woman I am looking for. Very submissive, very kinky with few to no limits for a long term real life relationship. Someone that wants to take some time and get to know one another to make sure we are a match. I don't mean we have to email for a year. But it would take some time. I am a very realistic man. It takes two people to make a this work in real life.

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TakeXTwo
 
 Age: 20
 San jose, California