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First, if you're looking for a leather and latex wearing uber-sadist to whip you while chained up in my dungeon, sorry but I am not that girl. I love sex, but the kinky stuff never did anything for me.
On the other hand I am fun, outgoing, sexy, down to earth, and full of awesome! So you should get to know me anyway.
What's the point of having a profile here if I'm not kinky? Good question! It's because I'm looking for something specific that isn't BDSM but it's sort of related. I want a guy to date and be my boyfriend who wants to be my cuckold.
I'm looking for a guy who's stable, smart, good looking, family oriented, wants to settle down long term, and genuinely wants and likes this arrangement. I want a long term thing, but I want my freedom and fun too. Call it having my cake and eating it too :).
Since everyone has a different idea of how this works, here's mine:
  1. I'm not into the whole humiliation and degradation thing. I want a guy I can respect and who's earned my respect. It's got nothing to do with him being inadequate or small or any of that stuff. If I'm spending my life with you it's because I love you and you're worthy of that.
  2. I'm not into the racist shit either, so none of that BBC crap or other weird acronyms. I'm into guys of all ethnicity and that's not gonna change.
  3. I'll always tell you when I'm meeting another guy, or if I've met another guy, or if I don't plan on coming home some night. I'll be discreet when it comes to your family and friends but the whole point for me is to do this and not hide it from you.

Other stuff is negotiable. I don't want my cuckold to feel like he's getting a raw deal because I fuck around and he doesn't. I want it to be fun for him to, and feel like he's an equal partner in our relationship.
Talk soon!
littleredhead91
 
 Age: 43
 Chgo Western BURB, Illinois