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Currently not looking, but willing to discuss ideas and interests ============================================ As the name says, I'm not just the same old thing. I am not saying I'm perfect, just different ;) I seek more than just rough sex, which seems to be a common complaint here. I also seek more than just sex of any kind. I am looking for an intimate, honest relationship. I am interested in quality encounters, not quantity. Honesty and integrity are of utmost importance. I have a broad range of interests. Except for the absolute fringe activities I have either done it or am willing to try it. But that doesn't mean you have to be willing to do it all. Just be upfront about limits and preferences. Please understand that if you are married and cheating I will be more than a little skeptical about your honesty and integrity. If you have consent of your husband/bf then that's great. But if you would lie to them, why would I expect honesty about things like STDs and other important issues. If you want your husband/bf involved in some way, let's talk. It may very well be possible, depending on the role involved, but understand I am straight. Not homophobic, but not interested in guys. And to be honest I would prefer a relationship with long term possibilities. Pic available after we chat a bit. Discretion required because although single (separated with no chance of reconciliation), I don't have any desire to involve the whole world in my personal life :)
3/3/2012 10:03:54 AM

Sigh, I am seeking a submissive who is intelligent, caring, wants a long term  relationship AND knows the difference between Dominant and Dominate, among other things.

3/3/2012 6:50:13 AM

I recently read a book "Living M/s; A Book for Masters, Slaves and Their Relationships" by Dan and Dawn Williams. It describes a relationship that is very close to what I seek. A relationship between two strong people, where one submits to the other not out of need or weakness but out of desire. Where honesty, caring and respect are of utmost importance. They use the word "transparency" to describe their relationship, in that they have no secrets from each other, hide no emotions, feelings or actions. Where dominant doesn't mean domineering, rather the one in control, who makes decisions. But those decisions include consideration, caring and the mutual interests of both, not just the Dominant. That is the kind of relationship I seek. Is this something that appeals to you? If so, feel free to contact me.

 

I would recommend this book to anyone considering a relationship involving BDSM, whether a TPE or D/s or other full time relationship. I think this book would help many of the pseudo-doms online to learn a bit about what it is REALLY all about. Oh wait, can they read?

10/18/2011 7:47:10 AM
I am constantly amazed at how many people here associate submission with weakness. It does not mean the same thing. Many submissives are strong people who choose to turn control over to another, often for reasons having nothing to do with weakness. Yet many of the "dominants" here can't accept or even tolerate strength in a submissive and rant, rage and find other ways to display their maturity. A quote from me that you may feel free to use "Anyone can force the weak to do their bidding, but only a true leader can get the strong to follow them. Which are you?"
ANGELTHEGODDESS
 
 Age: 25
  Michigan