I recently read a book "Living M/s; A Book for Masters, Slaves and Their Relationships" by Dan and Dawn Williams. It describes a relationship that is very close to what I seek. A relationship between two strong people, where one submits to the other not out of need or weakness but out of desire. Where honesty, caring and respect are of utmost importance. They use the word "transparency" to describe their relationship, in that they have no secrets from each other, hide no emotions, feelings or actions. Where dominant doesn't mean domineering, rather the one in control, who makes decisions. But those decisions include consideration, caring and the mutual interests of both, not just the Dominant. That is the kind of relationship I seek. Is this something that appeals to you? If so, feel free to contact me.
I would recommend this book to anyone considering a relationship involving BDSM, whether a TPE or D/s or other full time relationship. I think this book would help many of the pseudo-doms online to learn a bit about what it is REALLY all about. Oh wait, can they read? |