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Not sure what to write here. I was introduced to this lifestyle while in my 20's Not being able to find others back then that were also into it I gave up on it all. Tried again in the 90's when I lived in California.Even though there were plenty of people into the lifestyle and easy to find. There seemed to be, what am I looking for,ah,lack of any type of commitment. It appeared to be nothing but play and adult dress up. No one seemed to be serious or take it seriously.Nothing wrong with that "if" that is what you seek. However, I would like to have a relationship with a woman that is in it for more than just play. Dress up and toys can always be enjoyable. I checked switch. I'm a Dominant type Alpha male some who know me would/and have said. Yet there is a submissive side to me as well. I've been told this is not a site where one can find real,serious,people. It is hard to believe that everyone here is a fake and a lair. So I decided to give it a try.