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We look younger than our years. Middle aged, no kids, fit, still silly. Don't be serious, be happy. You be the judge of how old we are. Numbers can be deceiving - we all age at different rates. I think kids and responsibility ages people.
OK where are the nearby private Halloween Parties? I want to show off my dressed up wife on a leash in an armbinder and I want to see more of the same! The last kinky party I went to downtown was a place for the obese crowd to enjoy flogging. Still looking for that "Delete" button in my head.
Update: I got rid of my facial hair (and I shave her naughty bits clean).
Location (for those who will be visiting from out of the area): About 45 minutes NW of the President's White house. Gaithersburg, MD
Seeking hot looking couples to join us both (or a lady to join me alone).
No men without a lady. No TV's, no sissies, only qualified couples, and qualified ladies. What do I mean by "qualified"? No gender-menders, no smokers (no smokers who aren't smoking but still smell like a dirty ashtray but don't know it). Preferably not overweight. No very dominant order-givers. I'm looking for fun happy people who enjoy ladies dressed up hot, ladies wearing collars and cuffs. Not into pain. I am straight, not bi, not gay, not going to touch a guy, no sword fighting. She is straight but when bound has gotten into bi.
We are a real couple and can prove it on Web cam.
Not your average BDSM couple. It seems that everyone is into pain, we are not into whips, clothespins, hot wax, pain. Just a guy who enjoys his wife dressed up like a Domme; tall boots, long gloves, etc. but collared and bound with my leather bondage gear and chained to the bed or ceiling hooks so that she is helpless. When playing alone and she is bound I caress her, fondle, lick, use toys on her, make her climax and then have sex. Then I undo her, we both clean up and come back to snuggle. So this isn't really BDSM, like the handle says - NOT INTO PAIN. Just a guy who likes ladies in bondage and a hot-looking lady who enjoys what I do to her. Let's share some hot visuals, ladies in bondage, light touching, etc. See where it goes from there.
For starters we won't jump right into a sex show for you, perhaps some bondage fun, maybe taking some photos or shooting a little video (faces/identity masked) - if all approve, of course.
My wife says she isn't kinky but she climaxes faster when she is bound. So...maybe she is kinky enough! She and I did this long before we got married so she knew what she signed up for and she likes it and we do bondage every time as the kicker for sex.
Why bring others into this with us? New hot visuals! Making new fun friends! A lady dressed up in hot stuff is great eye candy to me more than a naked lady. OK so I'm weird. It would be great to find friends whom we can trust and share some hot visuals with (our ladies dressed up in hot stuff, bound, walking on a leash), see what happens from there. We could do snacks, laughs, movie night, usually funny or sci-fi DVD's, in the past we had G-rated friends over for The Incredibles, Wall-E, R.E.D. (really funny), etc. Will things progress beyond just hot visuals? Maybe. All must agree to it.
The other reason to bring others into this is I volunteer in a hospital ER, I have seen people younger than us who were fine one minute then dropped the next, heart attack, stroke, etc. It is wise to consider solutions for the possibility - what would happen if my wife were inescapably bound and I drop from a stroke? I mean I am in good health, I hit the gym 5 days a week, but... One solution would be to not make her situation inescapable but that's less fun for me. Now if another couple were here (or us playing at their place) and they were into the same thing that's a good fun time AND a good safety net - in an emergency there will be someone to undo the bound person and call 911, we would be there for your safety as well. Just being ready means we'll never need to. Murphy's Law.
At this point my wife is unaware of this site and this profile, if I find the right couple then I will try to make this work. Did this once before. One time another couple came over, I told my wife they wanted to see the leather bondage gear I made, she welcomed them in. Soon he and I restrained both of our lady's wrists to a ceiling chain and we played with them. His wife began passionately kissing my wife on the mouth, though my wife insists she is not bi she did not resist and she got into it. That was the hottest thing I had ever seen, these two hotties, my honey and his, bound together and make'n out. Woo! Sure would like to see that happen again. However my wife called it quits later when it looked like full swap was about to start. She wasn't ready for that and has been a downer whenever I talk about doing that again. So this isn't two people ready for full-speed wild times...but it could turn out that way if we all click.
The other day I was snuggling around with her and she wasn't in the mood for sex, it was late, she was tired. I jokingly said, "Maybe I'll go find a lady to play with." She giggled and said, "Oh sure." (a better reaction than I expected!) I said, "Maybe I'll find one who will be a good licker for you." She smiled, looked off into the distance and said, "Hmmm, oh really?!" and giggled. So I'm sure there is hope. We'll correspond here, talk on the phone, I'll meet with you, we'll talk, plan to get the four of us together. Our first 4-some should be G-rated, see how well we mesh. I've made our own shiny black leather collars, wrist cuffs, armbinders, etc. Fun stuff!
Me: Attractive, American, 5' 9", 170#, 44" hairy chest (back shaved clean), 34" waist, workout regularly to keep fit - no beer gut. All original parts, working well. Mellow attitude. Non-smoking, D&D free.
She: Attractive, American born Chinese, speaks with no accent. 5' 6", 120#, tiny firm natural hooters, large sensitive nipples, skinny waist, long straight black hair, all original parts, working well. Non-smoking, D&D free.
I put her orientation as "submissive" but we don't really identify as Tops, and bottoms, Masters and slaves or submissives, Dom's etc. Just a kinky guy with a tolerant/kink-friendly lady who enjoys bondage as a prelude to sex.
An evening of a couple of hotly dressed ladies exploring bondage would be fun eye candy even without the sex.
I put my orientation as Dominant. I always place her in bondage. Once in a while I let her tie me up and nosh on me. I don't want any guys around for this, I'm super-hetero, but if your lady is interested in playing with my wife and me...who knows. You may feel left out and not be interested in this but I thought I'd mention everything here, you never know who wants what.
Younger or similar age desired. Older...less desired but slightly possible. (Hey, I've got to have my eye candy, I'm a guy!) What? Too much honesty here? Overweight/chubby - not so desired. I know overweight people need to play too, I wish you happy times but we would not be a good match.
Prefer non-smoking, somewhat sane, mellow/easy-going. Dominating order-givers need not apply. Happy fun souls welcome. Smokers who smell like they just put one out before meeting...naaaa, my wife will smell it on your clothes, complain about it and be turned off. We don't smoke weed anymore but that smell is not objectionable, just don't bring it into our house unless you are willing to pay thousands of dollars for our legal defense if the cops kick our door down.
Men writing without a qualified woman, men who just want to watch a hottie bound - they will not receive a reply and will likely be blocked. Looking for people who are nearby, we live in a nice house with plenty of private driveway parking in a nice neighborhood, located only a minute away from Shady Grove Road and Midcounty Highway.
Please have pix, a Web cam would be nice. I have more pix of us and I can Web cam (Yahoo messenger), once my wife is in on this she can too. I won't ask for a peep show, I'm a gentleman. It's just nice to "see" new friends, especially if they are 100 pounds overweight and tell me that they are "average" build. In my photo I have a beard and mustache, I've shaved them off.
Photos: (1) Low resolution pic of me (center) taken with my old Cellphone camera. (2) Pic taken of my wife bound, wearing her hot pink wig (most recent photo). (3) Headless low rez old Cellphone pic of me at work - a way to show that I'm not 300 lbs. (4) I was taking video of my wife bound with my leathers and chains some years ago using an old analog 8mm camcorder, poor lighting, I captured a frame using my old computer. I should take some new pix but I really like how she looks so helpless in this pic with a toy strapped inside her with a harness I made.
Obviously we are not fakes. If we were I'd make up something way better! A local happy hour is usually do-able.
Got questions? Ask!
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Have written kindly to so many just to say hi. Some read. But they don't respond at all. Not even a simple, "Thanks for writing. Sorry, not our cup of tea. Best of luck." Some don't open the message at all nor read our profile. Testing testing, is this thing working? Are all those profiles fake? Does our profile smell bad? I don't understand this behavior I guess because I'm not that way and neither are the people I associate with. Just seems rude. |
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| Age: 68 |
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