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Ironically I am finally getting around to filling this out only after having met someone special and taking myself off the market.
I've been involved off and on in the lifestyle for 14 years, although that time was interrupted by a vanilla marriage that ended 2 years ago.
I grew up feeling I had to win approval to gain acceptance, and so at first it was easy to think I was a sub. But that belief was conditioned into me, and the last two years of independence have reversed my thinking. I have come to believe that I am by nature a Dom, and this is the role I have taken in my current relationship. I accept the responsibility that entails, and am enjoying the duties of leadership. I am also accepting that I have a polyamorous nature and am capable of more than one loving, commited relationship.
sexually, I am a switch. I'm an intuitive lover, feeding off the energy and cues of my partner, and enjoy both roles. I'm still learning my kinks and limits. I wouldn't mind finding a friend or playmate to top me occasionally.
Eventually, my girl and I would like to find a sister sub for her to share me with, but as we are still developing our relationship, that is something we are not in a rush to find. What I am primarily seeking right now is like-minded people in the Eugene area with whom I, and eventually We, may develop friendships.
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