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DOM! DOM! DOM! - Once more unto the breach, dear friends, once more
Back on line again on Collar Me for the obvious reasons.
Like all aspects of BDSM and its subcultures, there seems to be a massive dependency on self identification to pinpoint those experiences that define sexual orientation. However, I am not here to tick boxes and make lists of ‘live for’ and ‘tolerate’ I am back on Collar Me as a Male who is interested in, and well experienced with, BDSM as a dominant.
Some may say ‘Master’ or ‘Dom’, label me whatever - though personally I steer away from these phrases. If you are a genuine submissive woman looking to experience and explore your compliance and submissiveness then you should read on. I don’t expect submission from you within 5 minutes of speaking to you – I work on trust and consenting friendship / relationships that have to demonstrate a foundation for strong and positive BDSM to take place.
My style of dominance is more mental first than physical - to take control of a sub's interests, her experiences and her desires. I use her passions as either her pleasure or her punishment through reward and denial. It is the subs responsibility to define her squicks and interests, her ambitions and desires - she forms the blue print. I am particularly keen to hear from those new to being sub too as i am patient and understanding of a person taking their first steps on this journey.
I am educated and well read, into popular culture and a variety of music and films – it does help if the sub has interests beyond her BDSM interests. It takes a lot more than BDSM to make the world go round. I have 15 years experience in this role – I am no prude and have experienced many aspects of safe, consenting, legally and ethically moral and sane BDSM fetishes and activities within the obvious hard limits – I do not shock in that respect - so whatever your interests may be, these can be discussed openly with a view to exploring them further.
I do not do ‘Anne Summers’ BDSM. Scenarios, cosplay and atmosphere are real and convincing, a cheap tatty PVC outfit and novelty handcuffs are not my deal. Tied up means tied up; gagged means gagged; over the knee means over the knee; denied means denied and where punishment is incurred punishment is to punish for miscreant behaviour from a sub breaking or failing to adhere to the rules she agreed with her Dominant.
I am also interested in offering a 24/7 lifestyle for the right submissive / slave – though this is not reached overnight, there are steps to follow in order to ensure this is the right offer for the right person.
I note that 90% of Collar Me is fake; the remaining 10% is split by 9% interested but pure time wasters and 1% potentially real and keen to follow up on their actions. I am patient to find the right sub. I do not offer ‘one off’ encounters for quick sexual thrills.
Short one line emails and a sub’s inability to demonstrate emotional intelligence and communicative skills do not bode well – if you can’t string a decent email together forget it. Similarly if you are just a window shopper and have no real intent to meet but like or get a sexual kick through talking online forget it. I simply do not have time to invest in someone like this. Lastly, i am open to eharing form subs from further afield than Manchester as I can accomodate for weekends or longer.
I am single and live alone in a modern and tastefully presented Victorian house in north Manchester. My environment is plush, comfortable and welcoming. The vanilla me: I’m genuine, warm and affectionate, love to laugh and share quality time in restaurants or for meals out, I like shopping and exploring, music, gigs, comedy and good films. I am as equally at home with a bottle of wine and a good DVD as spending the weekend at Benacassim festival rocking out with friends. I am kind, generous and considerate of others, and in case you failed to notice in my text I am ‘Dom’.
Have no shyness and have the confidence – drop me a line and let’s discuss
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