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Norm1978

I am back for the who knows how manieth time, but this time I have a better understanding of my issues. I have left my previous profile text to allow you to better understand my personality, but what I am about to convey is what I need in the here and now. I have recently discovered my attraction to this lifestyle stems from a sexual addiction. So what I am looking for is the least destructive way to feed this addiction while I figure out how to break it. I am looking for a clean, discreet, attractive woman betwee 18 and 45 who would like an oral companion or sex slave for use during the daytime, during the week. DD free, into orally servicing any part of your body. I am also interested in any woman who may be looking for an intelligent man to discuss the lifestyle or explore her submissive or fetish desires. I would prefer someone who is intelligent, relaxed and would also like to be friends and conversationlists. I ask for either a body pic or an accurate description if you reply. I am open to questions and will respond to all. Thank you.***********Norm is short for normal, and by normal I mean reasonably messed up - which is normal for most people.
12/29/2011 5:14:56 AM
I have been around CM for quite some time involved at various levels of commitment. It seems as though in the last year or so it has become quite a thriving marketplace for men to give their money to strangers they will never meet for the simple privilage of giving a stranger their money. I guess if you get off on being an fn moron this is a very satisfying way to spend your money and time. Without proof, do you think that maybe this smoking hot woman who could have any guy might be a dude or nasty looking chick with stolen pics running a short con on you? You can get a tracfone for less than a hundred bucks, skype costs less. And what is with all the hate? There is a chic out there hating on straight gay men, whatever the fuck that is, woman and men talking about how worthless the other sex is and why they should just fall to their knees and obey. It is needlessly complicated.
12/15/2011 5:04:02 AM
I have never thought of myself as a masochist, but yet I keep coming back to CM because I am addicted to the painful disappointment it brings into my life, lol. Identifying as a male switch essentially renders you invisible here, so this message is for me to read later as no one will ever see it. At least when you talk to yourself you know at least one person is listening. I was making a nice local friend...intelligent, insightful...but I always sent a message and she responded, she has never sent a message to me. So I stopped sending messages and guess what, havent heard from her. Shocking, I know. Corresponded with a women I found to not only be beautiful, intelligent and interesting, but the right age and views upon the life and such. All of a sudden she found a reason to move on that was basically made up. I will always wonder about that one, she seemed pretty awesome - we will call here L.M.L. I may come back to discussing her in future posts. So now what? Who knows. Mostly career women here on the Domme side, and at least half of them are men (omg, it is so fn obvious too). I was thinking about offerring journal entry classes on CM navigation. But THIS WILL REQUIRE A TRIBUTE!!!!! Worms!!! Lmfao. Really? Thanks for not listening and have a wonderful day.
10/24/2011 9:59:31 AM
This is exhausting. I checked my sent mail and basically no one has read anything I have sent to them, lol. I would just like for the right person to contact me...just something easy. It would be great to have someone to converse with who understands the why and the how.
5/17/2011 6:11:34 AM
I have received several messages complimenting me on my humor. Though I appreciate it, I am actually not that funny. So to prove it, here is an original joke (i am sure that someone else has arrived at this joke before me, but I have never heard it told): why couldn't the eunuch defy his Mistress? He didn't have the balls. Thank you, thank you.
4/25/2011 11:08:34 AM
Another Easter has come and gone and I feel as though I am the only one who dyed his balls like Easter eggs. Is there no standard any more?
4/11/2011 5:15:09 AM
People on CM seem to become very sensitive to the situations they create for themselves here. I messaged a sub years ago "hello, please tell me more about yourself." She responded back, "DONT TELL ME WHAT TO DO I AM NOT UR SUB!!!" I quickly checked the message I had sent her to be sure it wasnt my normal ice breaker, "OBEY ME WHORE!" It was not, I was in fact polite. But I can only assume that the near constant abuse and lies change people's perceptions of others for the worse. To all the subs I recommend the following: remain calm and think - does this make sense? Be safe and develop a sense of quiet analysis when interacting with anyone, here or elsewhere.
4/7/2011 10:46:19 AM
The woman I have been speaking of is back on CM (we all come back here eventually) as a tribute Domme. Being a Switch, this excited me because she was not only beautiful, she was both personally and physically what I desire I a woman. She of course ignored my message, lol. Time to leave her be, I suppose. Although, should she ever read this, I am open to serving as her sex/humiliation slave...and if the submissive longings ever return to her...you won't find a nicer guy with more intuitive dominance (not a challenge to the other Dom males here, so please keep it in your pants fellas.
4/4/2011 6:01:26 AM
So I finally make contact with the aforementioned woman and she explains that she was talking to someone else (totally ok, we were not exclusive collarme bff's) and was so frustrated by him that she deleted her account. I guess that I can surmise that she did not think I was worth hanging around for, lol. It is good to be humbled on occasion! I still wish her the best. She was a cool chic.
3/25/2011 5:38:08 AM
I am taking some time off from the site, but I will be back. If you're tempted to send me a message go ahead and give in to your desires. I will respond upon my return. Until then, all the best to everyone. Norm
3/24/2011 10:51:34 AM
So the afoemention lady from my previous post has either deleted or hidden her profile. I would probably be stretching my self confidence to think that she created a filter after we began to talk and it then filtered my messages to bulk by mistake, thus leaving her the impression that I was ignoring her. She deleted three of my messages without reading them and the fourth was just never read. More likely, some who wasn't supposed to find out found out, she didn't like me that much and ignored me and then quit, or - and I hope - she found the someone awesome she was looking for.
3/23/2011 10:47:59 AM
I have been off this site for several years and something inside me brought me back. Initially, I was only here to chat, but I met an unusually cool woman who I seemed to connect with, but in the end she abruptly stopped communicating with me. I am confident that I did not offend her, so I am at a loss for why she has shut me out. I trust in the grand design and hope that she moving down a path of happiness. Perhaps it is too optimistic to think that of the billions of women on Earth the one is here among a few thousand, lol. But I still think the chances are good because the right people are drawn together by forces that cannot be explained.
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 Age: 22
 Geneve, Switzerland