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revcain13
What's in a name?

I like to converse with interesting individuals, so feel free to email if you do, too. I do have interest in subjects not related to BDSM, and certainly don't wish to discuss my own personal inclinations or experiences with strangers, so please keep this in mind. While YOU may be here to describe in great detail how you yearn to use a woman, I'm here for socializing. I need not know of your kinks to be a chat friend.

Whatever I might believe (regarding relationships between men and women, specifically) matters only to me. Why then, would I take the time to detail my thoughts here? If one is interested in what makes me tick, or how I see things, all one needs do is ask.

I would be open to meeting new people, but not to meet someone for casual encounters of any kind. I don't find online engagements interesting, and neither will I use the phone to do anything more than have a conversation in hopes of getting to know someone better.

I'm slow going, in making friends and lovers, so bear that in mind if you choose to contact me. My choice to not jump straight into bed, or fall imediately to my knees won't be a reflection of you, but an exhibition of my attitude towards new people and friendships and how I feel I should proceed in that regard. I thank you in advance for your consideration of these facts, and hope you understand if I do not reply to anyone who doesn't extend this consideration.
2/27/2008 2:22:56 PM
Profile turned back on for someone who turns me on.

Unless you know it's you - it's probably not. Sorry.
1/19/2008 8:41:08 AM
I really feel bad for the poor, mindless trolls here. No, really, I do. I can't imagine how frustrating it must be to send your pre-composed email to hundreds of women, and not get any bites.

How DARE a woman insist on originality, or personalization? How could some lowly submissive NOT throw herself at his feet, with an impressive and "different" email like this:


Chapter One:

That examination table I designed. (Yes; my profession. The design of medical devices.) Beautiful beige leather padding. Fully motorized. Fully adjustable.


You are going to wear a nice short skirt for me. I am going to adjust the tabletop vertical, and back you against it. Nice, tight restraints for your wrists and ankles as you feel that soft padding on your back. I am going to pick up the controller, and slowly tilt you back. Just a slight angle to lift your feet off the ground. I am going to run my fingers through your hair…and a few warm kisses to reassure you. And then I am going to loosen your blouse a little. Just enough to see your cleavage.


Then time for more restraints. All soft leather. One across each of your legs. Just above your knees. Tightening the ones on your ankles just a little more. I want those pretty legs to stay put. Then a nice, broad strap across your chest. I want you to feel the leather on your nipples right through your bra. Feeling your boobs restrained. Pressed together.


Right where I want you, I am going to take that controller in my hand, and tilt you further back. You are going to hear the motors ‘whirr’ while the leg extensions start to move. Then you are going to feel your legs spreading. I am going to watch your eyes as you feel your restrained legs spread further and further apart. Nice and wide for me. I am going to massage your thighs with my gentle, strong hands as I spread you wider.


Then comes the teasing. Kissing the arches of your feet…your ankles. Your knees. Lots of warm kisses inside your thighs. Always going higher. You strapped down tight…flat on your back…as my mouth finds you between your legs. You are going to feel my hands squeezing your thighs and I make love to you with my tongue. First teasing your clit…then plunging deep inside of you. Licking you deep as your legs are held wide for me. Starting slow…faster and deeper as I go. Slowly building you to your first climax for me while I taste you. I want my mouth on you as you cum for me.


Then you are going to watch as I adjust that table again…your head lower, and your feet higher. I am going to open your blouse…your bra…and bring out a new restraint for those pretty boobs. A wide leather strap. Like a weight lifting belt. But this one has two holes in it. One for each of your nipples.


I am going to strap it around your chest, with each of your nipples pointing through the holes. Make it nice and tight. I am going to gently tug your nipples as I watch your eyes. You strapped down, restrained…watching as I amuse myself with your nice, tight nipples. Arousing you a little further.


Two ice cubes, and a candle. I am going to slowly drip a little wax on each of those pretty nipples. I want you to feel that hot wax cool, firm, and then tighten on each of your nipples. Then, after peeling off the wax, and ice cube for each nipple. Slow, tight circles simultaneously. Over and over. Hot wax, and then cold ice. Fire and ice on those sweet tits while I have you restrained tight.


I am going to slowly undress. I want you to see how aroused I am looking at you. Stiff and ready.


Tilting you further back; head low, feet high. I am going to lean over you…facing your feet. While my mouth finds you between your legs again…I am going to slide my cock between your boobs under that restraint. A nice, firm tit-fuck while I lick that sweet pussy. A nice slow warm-up for me. Letting you feel my hot, hard cock between those soft boobs.


You are going to listen to me moan as I warm up. Slowly pumping my hips as I take you between your tits. Feeling my firm balls bouncing on the top of your cleavage. All the while the tip of my tongue works that clit. And I am very good at that. It is something I really enjoy.


I am going to remove the leather restraint from around those soft boobs. Then two nipple clamps. One for each nipple. Not too tight…just snug. Watching your pretty eyes as I slowly clamp each of your nipples. Small tugs to make sure I have your attention. They are going to be nice and sensitive after your first climax. I want you to see in my eyes how much I enjoy working on you restrained.


I am going to take a small, thin chain…and attach it to each nipple clamp…

Hello.  Maybe that was a different way to introduce myself, but it told much about that aspect of my life.  Don't think for a second that is my only interest, though.  Let me know if you want to see chapter two!


I saw your profile.  You sound sweet.  Intelligent.  I have been on CM for only a short time, and most of what I read here seems kinda goofy.  Yours was a nice change of pace.


Me?  I design medical equipment for a living.  X-ray machines...even medical restraints!  I like the diversity.


Before I got my degree in engineering, I was a bartender.  Before that, a soldier.  I have done a lot in my life, and I have tried to learn from it all.  I like to consider myself well-rounded as well.


If you'd like to chat, I do have yahoo messenger:  phil304t


Phil.



And the NERVE of someone such as myself to reply in an egregiously rude manner like this:


While you certainly included a lot of information about yourself, and your desires, I get the feeling you've sent that message more than once.

I'm not into mass mailings, but thanks

Obviously, I deserved his scathing reply, (and subsequent block):

Yeah; I was real impressed with your inane email.

Whatever, porky...



And people wonder why I don't think of looking for dates and mates on this site.
1/14/2008 6:48:39 AM
I haven't changed my outlook - I'm not here to utilize this site as a dating tool. I'm not interested in conversing with you if all you want to do is see if I'm 'worthy' slave material.

I'm not. There you go. No testing needed.

Also, (and I know this will sound rude to some, but this is just how it is) if you email me (especially numerous times) and get no response, you're not going to get one. It means I have no desire to communicate with you, so please, save yourself the time and just move on.

That said, I wonder why so many people are so dead set against participating offline in local groups. Are you THAT afraid of being outed? Or perhaps do you have a reason to stay solo - afraid of someone finding out about a skeleton in your closet?
1/9/2008 12:29:13 PM
I honestly do not need members to message me simply to critique my reasons for being on this site, or to attempt to share their conclusions about my personality based on their assumptions about me based on the data in my profile.


If I wanted to let you get to know me, so you would be qualified to make such statements, I would email you and tell you all about myself. If I haven't done this, it's fair for you to assume I wish to remain a mystery.
1/8/2008 10:14:58 AM
How are you supposed to react when someone says to you, "Cheer up, it can't be that bad." on the day you've just learned your grandmother died?


Cause I bit my tongue and didn't respond the way I wanted.
1/1/2008 6:43:28 AM
Another whole year ahead of me.


I have no qualms in admitting: I have no idea what 2008 has in store for me. I hope it's not a wild ride.
12/29/2007 7:56:43 AM
If a woman falls to her knees and no one is present to witness, does she make a sound?
12/20/2007 2:05:47 PM
We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are.
12/9/2007 7:49:26 PM
Do not seek the because - in love there is no because, no reason, no explanation, no solutions. 
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 Age: 29
 N.y.c., New York