I'll put a picture back up when I stop being so damn ugly...oh.

That's a bit of harsh, but I need to lose weight and I'm not comfortable with myself right now. I'm working on it, going to the gym and eating right, but it's going to be a while. So, yeah, check back in six months if you need a picture.

I want to respect whomever I submit to. To trust them. I'd like to think that if we can manage those two then the rest will fall into place, but from experience I know that's not true and that any kind of 'relationship' requires work and effort and understanding and even then they can crash and burn, but that's life.

My loves are horror (preferably Lovecraftian - I sure do love me some existential horror and cosmic terror), alcohol, and heavy metal. I have a penchant for self deprecating humor and enjoy fancy cheeses. I'd probably do anal on the first date if you asked nicely.

I understand financial domination but it's not for me. Sorry.