Dominant Couple in Lancaster, PA, Seeking
Plaything, Domestic Assistant,and Friend

A bit about us:
He is Chris, 43, Dominant, straight-yet open minded (would consider a CONVINCING TS/TG who lives there life as female), Dark Pagan, 6', a muscular/solid #300 (think Rugby player), light brown shoulder length hair with a few grey highlights, goatee/mustache, big heart, kind smile, lots of tattoos. VERY large sexual appetite - hence part of our reason for this ad. Mechanic by trade - hey - be our submissive and get free oil changes!!! Obviously, a sense of humor.

She is Jess, 30, Dominant, Bi, Spiritual Humanist (not crystal twinky though), 5'3", #210 and dropping, tattoos, shoulder length brown hair, glasses, cat lover (our submissive must be too), Administrative Assistant by trade, pianist, crocheter, and photographer by hobby. Be our submissive and get free scarves, gloves, shawls, afghans!!!! Yes, a sense of humor as well!

We enjoy cemetery photography, geocaching, Ren Faires, pagan fests, movies, lounging around at home, hosting small gatherings for our various interests, etc.

We do have friends who are also Dom/sub and will occasionally host small play parties or outings - we also occasionally attend a local swingers club, which, we would like for you to join as well. There is NO necessity for you to play wiht anyone else if you are not comfortable - we simply expect you to at least be there as part of "us".

We are not a "strict" 24/7 type of couple - we moreso beleive in the subtle aspects that are always there. Neither of us wishes to micromanage our submissive - however - there obviously is a learning/training period for the person to learn our personal styles and ways of life.

In this relationship and opportunity - Chris and Jess are equal - therefore - you will not hold either one of us more in control of you. "Don't run to Mommy when Daddy asks you to do something you don't want to do." *smiles*

Some details of what we are looking for:
Female between the ages of 25 and 50 in the are of Lancaster/Reading/Harrisburg, etc. - if not those areas - able and willing to travel to us. Body size does not matter much, though we do prefer larger women who take care of themselves. Please have your own source of income and transportation as this is not an opportunity for you to be 'taken care of' in that manner.

We wish to find someone who understands that being a submissive/slave, to us, is not one who will be a 'pampered fetish princess'. This opportunity is NOT all about YOU - it is about what YOU can do for US. It is about you being fulfilled in being submissive and useful to us and taking care of our needs. Granted, we are NOT looking for a doormat. We just simply wish to find someone who will put US before them. We obviously are kindhearted and will reciprocate when we deem it appropriate. *smiles* Too many people we have run into who have been intersted in us think this will be some type of fairytale submissive opportunity. But, we live in reality, and have very strict ideals in what we want from this person.

This person will help Jess with domestic duties, such as cleaning, cooking, wash, loving the cats, etc. They will be a friend, confidante, and lover all rolled into one.

In relation to Chris, this person will be there to take care of the needs that Jess is not able to, mainly sexually, sensually, romantically, and any other "-ally"'s that we can think of. Chris is a VERY sexual person - and Jess is not always able to fulfill these needs. His ideal of a good 'weekend' is at least one full day of not getting out of bed/the dungeon. *wink wink* We don't believe in sugar coating things - this is why we are sure that we emphasize the sexual nature of Chris' needs and wants - but this obviously isn't ALL that this person will be to and for him.

We are NOT looking for a replacement for Jess - we are looking for an addition to our relationship - and turning our partnership into an 'alternative family'.

We are Poly minded and would like this person, EVENTUALLY, to possibly become a permanent addition to our familiy and home.

We want this situation to become a "threesome" - not just sexually. We will do normal mundane things together - grocery shopping, planting, outings, movies, dinners, etc.

You will be expected to be there for all of the aspects of ANY type of relationship - emotional, friendships, sexual, etc.

Consider yourself to become a type of 'second wife'.

You do not have to be like minded in paganism or any other of our views/hobbies - you simply have to be 'accepting' of it as we practice in our home and do hold gatherings here. Howevver, if you are pagan yourself, all the more better.

If this long 'ad' seems to 'hit home' or strike some interest in you, please, we urge you to contact us and ask any questions you might have. Please be sure to write something of substance to us so that we have an initial way to find out a bit about your and why you're interested. We don't like it when it's as if we have to pull teeth to get people to talk in their messages.

We are NOT interested in "cyber" things - but we DO understand that the majority of initial contact and correspondence will take place via email/messenger - please note, though - that we DO require a physical meeting when the time is right. What else is a better way to get to know someone than in the flesh? All initial meetings, obviously, are in public venues - perhaps a dinner out - coffe somewhere, etc. - all at your comfort level in the beginning.

Please also be aware that most of the initial contact will be made through Jess - as in this venture Chris wants to be 100% positive that Jess retains the initial comfort level of the person we introduce. Basically, if you cannot be friends with Jess, Chris will not be bothered with you. Too many folks just want the 'one part' - and not the other. That's not how we are...we're a packaged deal. *smiles*

So, again, please, feel free to contact us - and who knows where this might lead.....

Jess and Chris