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I've been in the lifestyle for about 10 years now, and I'm definitely still learning. I have my likes and dislikes, what I'd like to find is a submissive or bottom that doesn't take herself too seriously. I'm definitely not 24/7, nor am I looking for someone who is. Yet, when it comes right down to it I want to be in the driver's seat. You certainly don't have to be a doormat, I can stand someone who has a mind of her own. (And prefer it.) I'm more attracted to a woman who can think for herself and chooses to submit rather than one who wants to be told what to think. I don't want to micro-manage someone's life, you need to have a few things that you can bring to the table.
Rather than give a grocery list of the things that I enjoy, I'll save that for possible future conversations. I need to get to know someone before I can "scene" or "play" with them.

N.
wetbelow23
 
 Age: 45
  New York