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Nitemara

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This account is being used by both me and my Mistress to help me find a Male Dominate and/or Submissive. She has access to this account to help me screen and weed out potential unsafe characters. We will identify ourselves when speaking, me with the shortened version of my screen name Mara and Her as Nite. Our names will be written at the bottom of each comment.
Ok, Needed to add this...You Need To Be Within Washington State...If your in some other state or country, please do not send me a message.
About me (Mara)

I'm a 25 year geeky nerdy girl, I love to play video games, read comics, watch anime and a whole range of nerd like things. I'm interested in getting out more for things like hiking and camping, I'm sure I could use the sunlight :P I'm working on my weight problem with slow but kind of steady progress. I'm almost always listening to music, all kinds, though i tend to steer away from country music. Lately been listening to alot of Porcelain Black and In This Moment.

My Experience in D/s isn't all that vast, I know about things and I've played alot online, but my RL experience is limited to a few trials and errors I do know that I am a switch who leans more to the submissive side, only feeling the need to Dominate every now and then :P Yes I have a Mistress but we haven't 'played' yet. Complicated, ask and I'll do my best to explain but I'm not going to here.

I really enjoy bondage, I've been doing self bondage for awhile now, nothing too advanced because of lack of finding soft rope of any decent length. I'm not really into pain, so if your a major sadist, please hit next now. A little pain can add a spice to things buuuut I'm a big baby so not much.

For Dominates...You MUST have experience, I'm not interested in men who think BDSM is just having a woman to suck him off and clean his house. There is a whole dynamic to a D/s relationship that I wish I knew how to put into words, its so much more then just sex, its the looks, the tone of voice, the knowing the even in a vanilla situation you are theirs. I'm looking for more the "Daddydom" Type, someone with patience, and understanding, I don't want an asshole, I want someone who enjoys being kind as much as they enjoy being firm, Someone who will punish if needed but that doesn't only desire to dish out punishment and pain. Someone who understands that aftercare isn't just for physical wounds. I Need to learn and grow, to become not only a better submissive, but a better person, I want a Dom who will take pride in teaching me and at the things I accomplish, who will understand if I fail (understand does not mean not punish)
I also must point out that I'm a SUBMISSIVE not a Slave, There is a difference, if you don't know it, then please hit next! Nor am I doormat to be walked all over, I have a spine and a life, I retain a certain amount of control over it.

I am mentally disabled I have Bipolar, Anxiety, Depression and Agoraphobia, I'm also slightly dyslexic with numbers. I have a few old injuries from being a retard as a kid that do sometimes cause me issues, but for the most part they don't. For the Record! I'm on medication and in therapy, I'm being treated so I'm not some crazy emotional insane chick!

If you managed to get to the bottom of this please mention applecakes so i know you made it here :P Little about me (Nite) Hello, I am here to help my lil subby weed out the pricks and wanna bees. Im not here for anything else but her. This is not a couples deal, or buy one get one free, lets go ahead and get that out of the way right now. Anything will have to be passed by me first for approval, Dom Males if this is a issue please press the next button. Now that the formals are out of the way. A few rules: 1. Before meeting in person there will be a 3 way call between myself, my girl, and the potential D/ser to discuss the details. 2. All limits will be followed accordingly by both parties (will be talked about BEFORE meeting) however soft limits are allowed to be pushed. 3. Everything will be approved by myself, However, once face to face with my girl it will be at her discretion unless things become out of hand then I will step in. That is about it.. if you are comfortable with these and you are willing to move forward please send us a Msg. ( Rules are allowed to change at my discretion. )
4/3/2013 10:24:17 AM

Probably should have waited until I got over my head cold to start this, am trying to respond to people but the sinus pressure makes it hard to think and everything a bit fuzzy lol am sure some of the people who have tried to contact me are going wtf? Ahh well, I've been given some interesting websites! So yay for learning!

4/1/2013 7:36:00 PM

Sometimes I hate having to write profiles, it always comes out feeling very formal, Its hard to express who you really are in writing, but writing a profile is really the easiest way to find like people! Talk about a pain in the *bleep!* Well, guess its now the waiting and weeding game :P

mistressstacie11
 
 Age: 30
 Florence, Italia