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Hello,
I am going to try this site because I am going to date and I need to date a dominant man. I am submissive when I am in a sexual relationship. I enjoy my submissive physiology and would like to incorporate it into a relationship going forward. I am not having much luck in finding men 'who understand' in my nilla life. In a sexual relationship, I am naturally submissive to the man that I am interested in. Nilla men have no idea what to do with me. Having to teach them defeats my purpose and I haven't met a man that has piqued my interest enough to encourage that level of investment from me.
I am not (to my knowledge) a 'sub' though. I have no enjoyment of sexual talk (and / or txt) with men I have no connection with. I have no experience with, nor need for 'toys'. Hence the user name Nillasub. I would be willing to learn more about this 'life style?' if I were able to connect with a dominant man and his needs were for more than what my limited experience offers.
I have been in the area for over a decade and have a full life. I have one business that I run while I am developing a second business that I intend to jump to when I have it all together (2 to 3 yrs out).
I have adult children in the area that I have close relationships with. I have good friends that I enjoy spending time with and a few hobbies that I indulge in frequently. I am not looking to be anyone's toilet, puppy, baby, door mat, (did I miss anything?). I am simply looking to see if there are any men here that have vanilla lives that they enjoy and would like to share with an attractive, intelligent, caring local lady looking to explore 'those feelings' she gets when in the presence of a man she is sexually interested in.
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