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maffe54
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madmike2001
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Xploryourfantasy
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*No married or attached men - PERIOD*
I am not a sub/slave and not looking to be owned by anyone - period. Local men between 37 and 50 only.
With that said, Hello! 
I will start with what I am ultimately looking for, then I'll work backwards. I am looking for a r/t 24/7 relationship (notice I didn't say ownership) with the possibility of marriage in the future. I also have children and the youngest is still at home. I am looking for a loving, mutal, romantic but very real and mostly vanilla relationship, with a side of kink.
There, that should have been blunt enough to weed through most.
So, if you are still reading, hello again! :)
I am a hard working single mother that is also a hopeless romantic. I have a good head on my shoulders, I can feed myself and know how to pick out my own clothes, although shopping together can be fun!
Sigh, that probably sounded far too bitter, I'm not. I'm just tired of weeding through so many frogs, trying to find my prince. ;)
I have been in the lifestyle for about 10years and I have tried nearly every side (sub/slave/domme/switch). There were things I loved and disliked about all of them. So, I 'packed my lifestyle bags' and tried the vanilla dating world.
Sadly, I found that the vanilla guys didn't 'get' me. They either wanted a sugar momma or they wanted a barbie and if I hinted that I liked to be tied up... ha ha... and if I mention that I have tied up men... well... enough said!
So, I took some time to think it through. What did/do I want? I have a son at home, who is my world. I don't want a man that will try to order him around or dom him (cringe). But I need a man that wants to be a positive role model (not his dad, he has one of those).
I like to snuggle, laugh, take walks, road trips, cry at silly movies, but I also enjoy some horror/sci fi movies as well.
I am complex, yet very open minded. I am a bit on the plus side, but not fat. I drink coffee in the morning and don't go to the gym. :)
I like bubble baths, love notes, meeting for lunch and also camping, picnicing, day trips and sitting at the park watching my son play. I have a very creative mind, I love to write and can wander around a museum and try to imagine what life was like (insert time here).
I want a best friend, a life partner. One that wants to grow old with me and hates being away from me. A dash of jealousy is flattering, stalking is not. lol
Someone that will go see that chick flick with me, even though he would rather not...because I will sit through the super bowl and cheer for your team, even though I have NO clue what those guys on the screen are really doing.
Grocery shopping, budgeting, snuggling, laughing. Lifes ups and it's downs, and the rest of the cliche' things too.
If my prince is out there, if you can't handle 100% vanilla, but don't want the 100% lifestyle either...then read on (yes, I made it long on purpose...)
Please be close enough physically, and actually have the time for a relationship. Please also understand that age does matter and we do need to be attracted to each other.
I want to find my soul mate, to share the rest of my life with the right man. No collars (except maybe during some fun role play).
I am smart, cute, witty, fun, loving and want to share my life with the man of MY dreams. You don't have to be a 10 (I am not barbie), but you do need to want what I want.
If you have read all of this, pat yourself on the back (smile) and maybe send me an email.
Thanks~
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I hope that you read ALL of my profile before emailing me. Friends are always welcome if you are sincere about friends. If you have questions that's ok too.
What I do like about men in the lifestyle and why I am looking for a real relationship with one? Well I think that people in the lifestyle have something that 'nillas usually don't.
We have the ability to be very open and honest with each other in ways that 'nillas take months/years to have. Yes, I am generalizing, but it's what I have found to be true.
I think (my opinion here) if you can sit and calmly and openingly discuss the lifestyle, then that bleeds over into other areas of a relationship. It is easier because we are used to be open and honest. If that makes any sense? Shrugs...well it does in my mind (grin) |
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| Age: 24 |
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