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I'm not your typical Domly Dom type. I prefer things to be done my way but I want a woman who, even though she wants to give up control, can also think for herself if I'm not there, and can grow to trust me enough that she will offer an opinion but still accept if I choose not to listen to it. D/s to me goes way beyond sex or "play" - that is only a small percentage of it. I'm not a sadist but I can get great pleasure from my partners pain if it is something they want. I can actually be somewhat of a masochist lol I love when my partner will follow orders even when it means they have to mark me.
You aren't mine to dominate (yet ;-) ) what am I going to do? Open a can of caps lock on your ass for not falling under my spell immediately? I'd much rather you see and know the gentleman first. Something I see over and over again is subs commenting about guys acting like jerks to hide their own insecurity. I have faults, I know I do, but I choose not to hide from them with bullshit and bluff and risk ruining something before it begins.
On the subject of submission: Submission to me is not a sexual thing, even if sex does come partly into it. If all you want is to be tied up, slapped around and fucked then I am not your Dominant. I want my sub to understand that I would never do anything to hurt or embarrass her, that what I ask of her does have a purpose even though she may not see it right then (or possibly ever). I don't want blind obedience, I want trust in my capabilities. My job as your Dominant is to guide you, care for you and above all protect you - even from yourself. If you please me I will spoil you, if you annoy me I will berate you and if you piss me off you WILL regret it.
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