Thank you for taking the time to visit my profile.

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As of April 2015

I have Married and Relocated to the Columbus, Mississippi area. I do have family near Birmingham, AL. I do visit there once or twice a month. Usually, every other week. I can do Sessions, with notice, in either place.

Contact Me and let Me know what you are curious about and I will answer to the best of My ability.

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If you happen to get the DDI #80 (Domination Directory International magazine, also on the line as DDIMag dotcom..) I have an ad in it under this name. It also has My name, Mztress Kathy, in it.

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We NEED to support ALL of our groups, organizations, Communities, fellow Kinksters, and Fetishists. After all, the more REAL sites we have, with a strong purpose for education, awareness, and safety practices, the more people we can reach out to and teach.

If WE do not teach others, then Who will???

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My Personal Choice...

When My Submissives feel I have Earned that respect from them, they will bestow the appropriate title upon Me.
Too many people pick up a paddle and call themselves a Master or Mistress now. Anyone can claim a title, but have they EARNED it AND the Respect that goes with it???

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I do not rule with an iron fist. Rather, I command with a calm, collected manner. I do not like to raise My voice and will never strike out, nor punish someone when I am angry or in high emotion.

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I have been on this site since 2004, so even if you have seen/read my profile before, some things have changed over the years. For one... the list of activities I enjoy has grown tremendously, while the list of My personal Limits have become considerably shorter. This happens as we learn and grow, especially if we stretch our horizons to reach new levels on this wondrous journey.

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My Absolute - will not do - Limits, for now anyway, are Scat. Watersports, Breath Play, Piercing (doing them myself that is... I AM okay with you having them done, just not done/pierced by Me), Spitting/Vomiting &/or Defiling another is also a Hard Limit.

When you have time, Do a little research for Me. All you need is a Search Engine and my name here. ;D Try the place where Life is a Fet, as well as the book of faces... It's not that hard to do.

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If you have an interest you do not see on My profile, Ask Me about it!

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I have been on this site, with this name, for almost 12 years. That is an unbelievably long time to be on such a site.

If you wish to know if I am "Real" or not, just ask some of the Leaders and Active Members of the Alabama Lifestyle groups. I know many of them and a good number of them have witnessed Me in a Public Scene before at Events, or at Parties/Socials over the years. ;)

I am active in the Lifestyle, when time permits.

I have been involved in D/s in some form since 1991 and have been a FemDom since around 1998. I did not become active within my Local BDSM Community until I joined The Red Chair in Birmingham, AL. in December 1999.

I have been a Professional Domina since 2002.

If you are active in the Groups or Communities in & around Alabama - or near Columbus, Mississippi, - or attend the DomCon Convention in Atlanta each October, you may know Me, or of Me. I am known as Mztress Kathy or NightMztress. (Some call me Mz. K. as well).

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I was a member of the oldest group in Alabama up until the summer of 2013. I still have many very dear friends involved with the group and they have my full support for being such a valuable asset to our Community.

I do run a group myself for those with an interest in Female-led relationships, but have been told CM does not allow the mention of any groups, organizations, web pages/sites up to & including contact information involving e-mail or other such private information. Anyhow, I really love chatting with Southern Fem Doms!

This sites change in policy/rules is SUCH a Shame and a HUGE disappointment.

One would THINK they would WANT to Promote those area's where people can find ways of being active with D/s in a Safe manner, and to help people locate Safe Social groups who KNOW what they are doing. These groups also help new people know who to be wary (watchful) of- like those that don't understand they better damn-well listen when someone says NO or Stop!

I am also very saddened by the decision the Management/Owners here have made.

I have supported this site for countless YEARS, always spreading the word about how great a place this was. I have passed the website address for CM on to hundreds, if not thousands, in the VAST length of time I have used this site. As well as passing it on to people over the last ten years through online means as well as in private conversations. I have always placed a link when possible, or a hint when not, so others could find THIS site more easily.

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Moving On...

If you have questions, please feel free to ask them. So long as they are posed politely, I do not mind.

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My Morals... (and Yes, I DO actually have them)!

I do not require others to call Me by a title (Mistress) unless they have, or do, serve Me and have Gifted Me with such an Honor because I have EARNED it from them.

Just because I am "A" Mistress, does NOT mean I am "YOUR" Mistress...

If saying "Ms. Kathy" is too informal for you, then please refer to me as "Ma'am". It's seen as just a Southern Hospitality here and no one will know it has any meaning other than good manners if overheard. :)

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NOTE... I Do NOT wish to be called Goddess, or any other such lofty title!

I have enough on My hands dealing with day-to-day life without bringing Her attention to Myself in a negative way.

I am a simple Woman with fairly simple tastes. Just as any other Woman, I DO like nice things, but I am not really much of a Material girl. Over all, I have been told I am very down-to-Earth, and easy to Converse with. You will have to make your own decision there.

(Boots/Shoes would be an exception to My not being very materialistic, lol. I LOVE My Boots! Also like other shoe types, IF they are made of Leather or Suede. Boots and Books. My two strongest weaknesses!)

If you are curious about Me, then contact Me and ASK what you wish to know! I am pretty much an open book and will answer almost any question asked. What's the worse that could happen?

I wish you all the best in finding what you are looking for.

Sincerely,

Mz. Kathy

aka: NightMztress

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This is an excerpt from my previous profile. Hopefully, I mention the important issues that I had covered in my profile. If not, I apologize.

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Apparently, one can no longer mention other websites on this one. Which is a real shame because I have ALWAYS listed THIS site on ALL of my other profiles and sites because it has always been one of my favorites... and there are MANY sites to which I belong. I have been on this site since 2004.That is an awful lot of free advertising that I have provided happily in the past.

That is a very long time to have a profile on a site such as this, for dating, meeting, and networking.Too many people disappear after only a few months, or they change their names.

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I have always felt that we, as Kinksters, should stick together and support each other. The reason for that is there are too many others that would love to bring trouble to our door.

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Here is a small portion of some of what was included on my profile, and "should" still be "appropriate"...

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I support myself and will not take on anyone that cannot pay their own way. This is an ABSOLUTE Non-Negotiable issue for Me.

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If you are interested, then write Me an e-mail on here. I have some vanilla/family things going on and am not on here often. So, Please have patience and I will get back to you as soon as I can.

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Best Wishes,