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I am submissive sexually and am looking for a partner who is kinky like me behind closed doors. I'm an independent, active, intelligent single woman and am looking for an equal partner and friend who likes to explore the give and take of power in the bedroom. I'm not looking for a 24/7 D/s relationship. I'm looking for that cliche that all the "match.com-ers" are looking for... a long term, monogamous relationship with someone who will share some common interests and values, and be an equal partner to share life's ups and downs with. Unfortunately, while I've found several quirky, intelligent, sporty guys who like hiking and walks on the beach on other sites, I have yet to find one who isn't horrified at the thought of handcuffs, clothespins, and, well, you know...

So, here I am with all of my vanilla romantic hopes with a small side of kinky in the bedroom.

Do you like hiking, running, floor hockey, board games, poker, dancing, drum circles, reading, NPR, folk festivals, karaoke, Indian food or red wine? Are you passionate about your career, hobbies, or spirituality and want to meet someone with a similar passion for life? Message me if you want an equal partner who is willing to be "not so equal" in the bedroom... but who expects to go right back to being equal at the dinner table or the living room. Message me if you are close to my own age (within 10 years). Message me if you don't mind the old-fashioned journey of going on several dates before even considering getting physically intimate.

Message me if you don't mind knowing that I am not comfortable exchanging photos or phone numbers. Exposure on a site like this would ruin my career. (I know many of you understand that). I do want to actually meet people in real time, but if we hit it off after one or two email exchanges, I'll ask you to take the risk of meeting me blind in some safe public place for coffee or tea.

Thanks for reading. Good luck in your search.
MiamiDimples
 
 Age: 34
 Arlington, Virginia