Thirty-something Male seeking a very submissive Woman for long-term relationship within the bounds of a firm D/s lifestyle.

If I find the one I am seeking, I will spare nothing to protect and take care of her. I will take her on a journey into the most sublime submission she could ever imagine. What I mean to say . . .that is, I will show her such absolute devotion and love that she cannot help but want to serve me with every fiber of her being. If I find the one I am looking for, she will be the focus of my life and love, and all of my energies will be directed toward continually deepening the bond between her and I. I will provide her with a level of control and discipline that she has only dreamed of. That does not mean just giving her orders. Any moron can tell someone else what to do.

There is no love that compares to the love and devotion of a real, honest, true and heartfelt D/s relationship. But it takes two people that truly, at an almost biological level, were destined to live out such a life. I know this sounds implausible after one spends any amount of time searching the web and the world for the “one”. But I believe in it, and will not rest until I find it. I do not want this profile to sound like some of the cliché riddled stuff out there. But I really don’t care. The one I am seeking will understand my words, because it will resonate with her deepest needs. I know that, and that is all that matters. And, besides, what better adventure can one have in life than seeking their true heart’s desire.

A little about the one I seek: She must truly be very submissive and sweet. She must take great pleasure in being submissive. She must be intelligent and willing to learn. She should be between somewhere around 20 to 34, mature and discrete. She should be presentable and refined enough to know how to dress properly for different occasions. She must, above all else, be a happy person and deeply desire to serve. She should be proud of her role and have respect for herself. Finally, she must like to have fun and love to laugh. And with my firm and loving hand, I will take her to a place where she always feels loved, secure, owned and respected.

A little about Me: I have had D/s relationships and vanilla relationships. I have found that I want both a vanilla life (job, home, family) and the type of D/s relationship described above. I have a number of advanced degrees from good universities and I am well educated, well read, well traveled, and multilingual. I can be very demanding, and I practice bondage and some of the other trappings that go with the lifestyle.

I will only get involved with someone after extensive communication and numerous meetings to test the connection/chemistry. She must also truly feel that I would be a good match for her. I would never ask her to give up her family or friends, or anything stupid like that. Actually, I would much rather that she maintains the healthy relationships that she currently has.

Drug and disease free are non negotiable.

If all of this sounds like what you are seeking, feel free to send me an introductory email about yourself and we can get to know each other. I look forward to hearing from you.

Nicolli (not my real name)