SWM, 43, brn/blue, 220 lbs, 5'10", meduim build, intelligent, attractive, and sensuous. Multi-degreed ambitious professional who has been successful in my career(s), changed careers, and now, I am FINALLY able to pay attention to my personal life. As far as what I seek- it's very simple. I am looking for a S/DF, who is in turn looking for that ideal man to sweep her off her feet and become her life partner. . her husband.. . and the father to her children. She and I will create a loving home and family. She will desire children, and if she already has one, or two, I will of course adopt them. I want it all- the committed/lifelong relationship, the loving wife, the family and the house w/the white picket fence. (In short, the ideal "vanilla" existence). Accordingly, if you are not looking for a lifelong committment, then am probably not the person you are looking for. At the same time, I have submissive needs and desires that would not be fulfilled in a vanilla relationship. . .and they involve my wife/partner being able to date and enjoy other men. . . cuckolding, in other words. Do I seek the same privilege in regards to other women? Of course not. I want my sexuality and sexual activity controlled by my wife; to do with as she pleases. Would I prepare her for her dates? Of course. .and I would also prepare her dates for her, if she wanted. SOOOOO.. .if you want a loving and committed relationship where you are the only woman in your husband's life- but can also enjoy other men (or even women) then I would very much like to get to know you better, and take things from there. My hard limits: No blood, heavy pain, animals, children, permanent marks, or bodily waste materials.
Due to my job- and sometimes public appearances- I cannot post a photo on the net, but will gladly EMAIL one to anyone who asks.
UPDATE: I am in Colorado Springs; but anticipate returning to my adopted home (Salt Lake City, Utah, hence the handle “NIcholasNUtah”) in about 2 to 3 years; accordingly, you must be able to relocate. And once I return to Salt Lake City, I will not leave again, except to travel. I've realized it's where I love living, and it's where I want to raise a family and continue my practice. Soooo. . you would have to be open to the idea of relocating. . but (I would like to think) I'm well worth it.
Ideal Person: I am quite selective, and I assume my future mate is the same. I desire a woman who is intelligent, creative, mentally stimulating, a great conversationalist, sensual, and shapely. She loves to laugh, and has a gift for making others do the same. She sees every day as a new day. .and as a gift.. and looks for the best in everything and everyone. She enjoys spending time with her husband and family, and, like myself, believes that the family comes before anything else. Vis-vis my submissive side, I seek a woman that wants a 50-50 relationship outside the bedroom - or even 60/40, 70/30 (in her favor, of course) and who wants a man that is fulfilled when she receives maximum pleasure from both him, and the other men (and/or women) she chooses to enjoy. She enjoys her freedom to do what she wants with whom she wants; and she knows her husband is waiting patiently at home while she is out on a date. She wants to be in firm control of her husband's sexual activity and sexuality, and wants him to be fulfilled both as her husband and as her submissive. If this is you, I'd love to hear from you.
