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	SWF 38 from New York City who is willing to wait until she has what she needs and desires, a single (local to NYC) male 29-39 (Okay, maybe 40) who is either submissive or a slave and seeking a relationship in which his aim is to obey her. While I am very sensual, I am also a bit sadistic at times. While a submissive or slave is desired, it will not work unless he also someone who can be called a friend. I am not interested in one or two line emails. If you wish to contact me, describe yourself completely. Do not private message me without prior permission, and do not private message me to tell me that you emailed me. Email shall be sent on collarme only. I do not use other servers to chat. Thank you.

6/28/2009 8:46:17 AM

This comes from WikiHow: How to Admit to a Foot Fetish

1. Make subtle hints, look at your partners feet now and then and allow yourself to be seen doing so.

2. After doing so, offer your partner a foot massage on a regular basis, this will allow your partner to accustom themselves with you touching their feet.

3. During a time of passion or love, slowly move yourself towards your partners feet. If she begins to show some discomfort or dislike you know to stop.

4. If he/she has not begun to show some form of disapproval, then continue with the usual form of showing affection, be that toe sucking, foot licking or kissing or whichever way, shape or form your fetish takes. Doing this may give her hints that perhaps this is what he needs to give to satisfy her.

5. At the right time (preferably a quiet one, say alone together, for doing it among others may bring up some ridicule) simply tell her that you have a foot fetish. Given that earlier hints have not been unsuccessful, she will not see any problem and you will continue your lives a bit better on your part. However she may show some disturbance at this, having accepted earlier signs as playing or experimenting.

6. Be this the case, then sit her down and just talk it through, as it is not a relationship busting matter.

7. Flat out compliment your partner's feet during a massage and even kiss their toes.

8. Be confident in your approach. Hide any embarrassment. This will make your fetish appear more acceptable and will allow her to become more acclimated.

4/10/2008 9:06:06 AM

I recently sent this note to someone contacted me on Collar Me. I am posting it so others get a sense of issues I have dealt with, and what I will and will not tolerate.

slave,

You keep asking about your training, and the very first thing you are to do is tell me why you keep asking me this. Your training will consist of tasks in which you are to do what I ask so that I see you can obey.

If you are expecting a list of things I will do to you which you can read and masturbate to, you are wrong.

I believe in doing things safe, sane and consensual. I am not into a blunt punch into your nuts nor castrating you.

In preparation for chastity, you will be masturbating less, and when I determine, then you will be locked up. You will need to earn this right by your behavior, behaving in a manner I approve of.

I can see you spanked, caned, flogged, tied up, yes of course cbt, anal training etc. Will I tell you I will do x on such and such date, the answer is hell no.

I do not know what kind of dommes you are talking to daily for your amusement, but I will now stress again that I do what I enjoy, not what some slave expects or tries to demand.

I suggest you reply to my email in a note here, not via a text message, and if you are ready to submit, to ask me out for a date to finally meet me since you had to cancel this past Monday.