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I can never be a slave to a stupid man.
[NOTE: I am in a vanilla relationship that is open]
Submissive Side:
I'm not really all that submissive. This has been the major road block in my being able to explore this experience. I am headstrong, forthright, opinionated and generally an A-type personality.
I'm not looking for a scene where I casually toss aside those elements of my personality. What I want is a man, woman or couple who feel that they can command respect.
When I say 'command respect' I don't mean yell at me to kneel, any idiot can do that. I mean you are educated, sure of yourself without needing to be cocky, you know what you want, you frequently get it, and you're not afraid to ask for it.
Your method of control is mental not physical. You understand the roles and mental aspects of the D/s relationship. You understand that a D/s relationship is more about thoughts and emotions then it is about yelling and rough sex. You have respect for your sub.
This means that I want a heavy mental aspect to the relationship. But I also expect it to be heavily physical and sexual. That means you in person doing things to me or ordering me to do things to myself.
I expect and love sex as part of a submissive encounter. I do not submit for the pleasure of submission, I want to see where it takes me sexually.
Dominant Side:
I've not practiced on the dominant side before. I tried to go the sub-road before testing my own dominance style, but with a significant amount of dom requests I am willing to test my limits and yours with the right man. I am only interested in men who are looking for a domme. I expect a sub-male to be smart, articulate and willing to think outside of the box or bedroom for sub experiences. Beyond that I'm still forming ideas.
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MSN/Chat: Yes, I have an MSN account, no I have not logged on in over a year. It's fair to say I've been around the block a time or two on online sites. In my opinion chat programs are a colossal waste of time and are only really good for people who are bored at work and are looking for a distraction. I like my job.
Anything we want to find out about each other before we are brave enough to exchange names and phone numbers we can find out via e-mail. E-mail will sit there and wait until I have some time to put some decent level of thought into an answer.
I think cyber sex and web-cam sex is idiotic and if you're looking for that, keep moving.
So, if you have to go through the e-mail to chat to phone progression you can make one of two choices with my profile.
1. Keep moving, I'm never going to sign into MSN.
2. Spend a bit more time on e-mail because I'll completely skip the online chat phase and go directly to phone. |
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Submissive Men: I've been thinking more about what it is I want from a submissive male. I know I have the dominant personality but I'm concerned about my lack of experience as a domme. I think the way to fix this would be to get some experience as a sub, but I find myself bored with most of the dom men on here.
I don't want to be the kind of domme that beats a man until he wimpers and has red welts all over his body. That sort of dom bores me, and I think I would be bored trying to be that kind of domme.
I'm not opposed to using some physical force, but it's not my main turn on.
I think the things that I would enjoy most about being a domme are on two opposite ends of the scale. On one end I like the idea of having someone cater to me in a sensual way. Wash my hair, give me a massage, pedicure, manicure take care of all the dressing or undressing as the case may be, carry things, drive me places... in short being a minon, with physical access, there to fulfill other needs should the fancy strike me.
On the other end of the scale I'd like to direct a man to use another sub woman. I'm going to limit it to women at the moment, but if I have a sub that is really into bi I'd be open to him using another man. |
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Location: I'm interested in meeting someone, in person, finding out if there is interest in going further and actually having physical sex. I'm a city girl, I hate to drive and I think the population of Toronto is reasonably large enough that I can find people in the city with similar wants and desires. Do NOT ask me to travel outside of Toronto, I'm not interested. If you are not coming to Toronto in person I'm not interested. If you list somewhere other than Toronto as your location you'll want to tell me that you do travel to Toronto otherwise I will assume you are looking for cyber only and will ignore you. |
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Weight: I'm not a slim girl, but I also am not shopping in the plus sized stores. I've got curves, I do not have a flat stomach, I have very soft skin, large breasts, thighs that have meat on them... I really have no considerations for men for weight... so long as you like a woman and are attracted to a woman that has some weight on her (I'm a size 14) then I don't really have too many reservations as long as you don't fall into a morbidly obese category. For women I love larger women, I have a strong preference for women who are my size or larger. |
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Height: I prefer taller men, this is again a MUST have for men who want to be dominant. I want to be able to wear heels and still have you taller than me. For submissive men I'm willing to make exceptions, but I tend to go for men who are taller. Women I prefer women who are at least close to my height. I like a physical female partner and that is often hard with smaller women. |
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Age: I prefer men who are older than me. For a man who is looking to take a dominance role you MUST be older, I will not consider younger men. For a man who is looking to take a submissive role I may consider a younger man but I'd need to be convinced of your maturity and creativity. Women, not too much younger and up to 20 years older I'm comfortable with. |
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I keep forgetting how disproportionate male / female ratio's are online. There is part of me that would like to take the high road and say that I will respond to every man that writes to me. But it is simply not feasible for two reasons: first the simple volume - women on here get way too many messages. Second, it's been my experience that many men (not all, but too many for comfort) when told "thank you, no, I don't think we'd be a good match" find it necessary to be rude at that point. I've got a thick skin, I can take it, I'd just rather avoid the unpleasant experience. So, if I'm ignoring you, read my next message on what I'm looking for and if you think I've made a mistake send me another message. |
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| Age: 23 |
| Delaware,
Delaware |
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