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| It's a question I've been pondering for a while now. The difference between what I want, and what I need. In this case, relationship wise. While my personality is dominant (I'm more alpha male, where I'm not comfortable not making the decisions), I do realize the need for direction and guidance.
As much as I would like to pretend that I am some free-form spirit, I do enjoy structure. I like to know how things are to be set, the path to take (or perhaps options to take), and the overall end goal. Otherwise, motivation for setting goals I have found, is rather non-existent.
Doing something purely for myself, never has gotten those goals very far, I've noticed. I'm always more than happy to help others reach whatever goals it is they seek, but the same importance I put upon others and their goals, does not seem to find its way back to myself. I can think of several melodramatic and self-absorbed reasons why this could be, but I'll err on the side of some reason, and not splatter them about the profile.
So, I know what I need: guidance, direction, motivation, and a reason to do X. What I don't know, is in what fashion I need the above. Do I need it from a firm guiding hand, or do I need in via reciprocation from a submissive. This I just do not know.
If you have any advice on the matter, I would happily have it. I hate not having answers, and this one's gnawing about my mind for some time now.
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Ever notice how a picture taken never makes you look how you look? Or, perhaps how one thinks they look. Also, selfies are difficult for people of the taller persuasion. |
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| Age: 20 |
| Warren,
Ohio |
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