Hello!

While a relative newcomer to FL, I am an experienced Dom who by profession is a corporate trainer with nearly two decades of participation, passion and play in D/s. However, I’ve never met a potential partner from whom I haven’t learned something new and that’s the key to a successful D/s relationship … an open mind and a willingness on the part of both the Dom and his sub to learn about each other’s interests, wants, desires and needs within and outside the D/s relationship.

BOTH Domination and submission starts in the mind; if you don’t understand that mental stimulation is the basis for every other sensation to which I’ll expose and explore your mind and body, we’re not likely to get very far. In fact, we’ll not likely get past the first conversation. Communication is one of the most important aspects of ANY relationship and it’s especially important in such a personal and intimate matter as D/s. It's also the basis for the trust we must develop in order to go anywhere. I am a very open, communicative and vocal man and, as a Dom, I will stimulate your mind with lots of questions and direction. I expect a similarly open and communicative partner or at least someone wanting to learn such traits.

I want to know what makes your mind and body tingle; what makes you feel wanted, desired and needed; what gives you passion and pleasure in serving as a submissive and yielding to your submissive tendencies as you place control of a situation or scene into my hands, tools and toys. I’ve been told I’m a very unique Dom in that I’m extremely open-minded and very interested in listening to my sub’s interests and desires … and then teaching them how to explore them with me in creative and fun ways.

Safe, sane and consensual play is a given with me. Age, race and body shape are not nearly as important as outlook, attitude and above all else … maturity. I have no interest in an immature, whining, mentally unstable or otherwise lost woman who’s trying to find herself through another person. While I am more than willing and interested in training a newcomer, I’m not looking for a few sessions of play with someone seeking to make a real and regular connection. D/s is far more than sexual acts and I relish the possibility of training the right woman to appreciate the joys of exploring her submissive tendencies and needs that can lead to intense, passionate and mind-blowing sexual release.

While email, chat and phone conversations can be good meeting and initial exploration tools (and sometimes fun training tools), I seek someone willing and able to make a regular commitment of personal meeting time. Finally, while it would be great to meet someone in your back yard, I’ve found such an expectation to be unrealistic; besides, meeting in new and unknown places can be fun and exciting. While I’m in the Tallahassee area, I’m open to seeing you in a bit more of you in north FL and the FL Panhandle.

Drop me a brief note to say “Hi” and tell me a bit more than what’s in your profile; I’ll certainly respond with the same and likely more. Best wishes to all.