greetings everyone, she was checking out some of the profiles and saw one that really speaks to her own beliefs. makes her wonder how many think that way in real life. but she wants to thank those that write the way that they do because it gives her hope that there are those who really understand this lifestyle in more then just a play sense but really what it means to have a deep relationship that revolves around the lifestyle. many seem to think that it is all about the playing, whether it be a public scene or a private one. how many think about how connected the Dominant and the submissive have to be on a mental stage. the lifestyle to her is more about the mental aspects because without those the scenes do not really go all that deep beyond the momentary satisfaction of sub space and the dominant enjoying knowing that they were able to play their partner into that subspace. the glow may stay for a little while but it always goes away leaving the cravings still very much apparent. whereas when it is on a mental stage the glow lasts alot longer because when they click in that way it is an ongoing things instead of just when a scene is under way. she questions how many see this and believe this in their hearts. |