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Nevaline

If I had to condense who I am and what Im about in one word, it would be esoteric. You will either understand or you wont. I generally do not expect many people to understand and I am content with that.

Im not interested in playing sex games online. I seek out conversation, that small spark of intellectual connection that can be fanned to flames with patience and diligence.

I do not engage in casual anything. It isnt my style. Nor do I bark orders like a drill sergeant on a power trip. A simple request should suffice for all things. I do not force submission, I expect obedience. There is a difference between the two.

If there is no dynamic established, I owe you nothing. You also owe me nothing. We are people, not fetishes.

My primary focus is power exchange and service.

Domination and submission is not a game of tug of war, to be mauled and manhandled until someone wins. There is no winning. It is dancing. A lead, and a follow, and the trust required to both carry out your role and enable the other person to carry out theirs unhindered. It is using your combined strengths to bolster your weaknesses. Inspiring each other to do better, and be better.

Call me Nev, or Nevaline. I dont like titles from strangers, it denotes a certain respect that hasnt yet been earned.

4/13/2018 6:19:57 AM
I'm not a female supremacist.  In the slightest.  I firmly believe in the equality of men and women.  Submissive does NOT equal inferior.

If you message me, and at any point speak about the rightful place of men being inferior to women, I am immediately done with the conversation.  I will not debate the subject.  
4/2/2018 1:06:51 AM
"hi how are you" and any variation of mind numbingly dull, uninteresting initial messages, are the internet version of terrible pick up lines in a bar.  We hear them constantly, it's not more engaging because you put a smiley face at the end, no we don't care in the slightest what pick up line it is.

Be original, be conversational, be engaging.  Or don't bother.  
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 Age: 22
 Sydney, Australia