So today I've changed my profile to reflect my slutty side! I hope you all like that change in pictures. I'm happy to hear any feed back, and as ever, if you want to know more (or see more!) please get in touch with me.

Just found the games section of this site has Tetris, looks like I'm going to waste the next few hours, if only it had the music too!

Considering an about turn in what I'm looking for, I'm thinking that looking for something long term straight off the bat may be the wrong approach. Perhaps its better to look for short term, even one off encounters for now? I'm thinking if I play the numbers and meet more people, theres a greater chance of finding what I want. I guess its likely to be more fun too! I can certainly live with accusations that I'm a slut, thats certainly not something I could deny!

I'm guessing that if I feel I need to ask to check if you were actually born a female, then its best I don't ask the question?!

So many guys visiting my page, I'm not sure why, but thanks anyway! Just one thing, why so many cock pics? Is anyone impressed by these? Most that I've seen make me think you've got something wrong with your little fella. I mean, I fully get why you'd show off a giant one, but a litle shrivelled micro winky, thats just not impressing anyone! :)

Enough with the extreme close ups, please!! Seriously, its like asking me to get turned on by looking in a butchers window, all that ghastly red flesh exposed. As for sticking your camera up your backside, well thats just wrong and is only going to serve to put me off my breakfast.

Am I old fashioned in thinking a picture of your face would be much more appealing? Depends on your face I suppose....

Been off on my hols for the last week, so apologies to anyone who thinks I've been ignoring them. Now working through my messages, I'll get back to all the non-abusive messages ASAP, so bear with me!

So many women here want to "f*ck my wallet". What a strange request!! I'd imagine the corners would make it rather uncomfortable? Still, if it turns you on go nuts. Just remember to give it a wipe over when your done, wouldn't want any stains on my library card!

One thing I see on so many profiles I feel I have to comment on. "I don't wear leather all the while" or similar. My response to that is why on earth not?! I mish I was able to wear an outfit that left members of the opposite sex dribbling with desire for me and willing to do anything I asked! Seriously, ignore the fashion trends, a leather catsuit is always going to be in style. It may be hot, sweaty and uncomfortable, but my goodness you'll turn heads! :)

Of course if you can suggest an outfit that I can wear that will make women go wild for me, feel free to tell me about it! :)

Amazes me the amount of women here claiming how its so hard to find some genuine, how everyones a timewaster and so on. Do you realise that men outnumber women on here to somthing in the region of 100 to 1?

Here's what you do. You use the mystical facility known as "search". You use it to find people the right age/race/gender/location that you want. You read the profile of who turns up and send messages to the ones you think sound good. Easy!

Seriously, I realise its hard, but you've got to make the effort and I know, I know, every woman seems to think they shouldn't have to do the chasing, or make the effort, but hey, its not 1950 anymore, if theres something you want then go get it, sitting back timidly will get you nowhere.

So whats with all the profile visits I've been getting lately? I wouldn't mind but they all seem to be 20 year old Americans, which sadly makes me presume fake. I guess CM is preparing to go to a pay site and is trying the scam that out of nowhere hot young chicks are after me. I'm far too cynical to fall for that, sorry!

I think its time I addressed the rather touchy subject of professional/financial dommes.

I would have thought that anyone reading my profile and journals would have guessed, but I'm simply not interested. For me a woman has to earn her way in the world using her ability and intelligence, I simply can't imagine being able to submit myself to a woman who doesn't do this.

Don't get me wrong, in any relationship (including a vanilla one) I expect to pay my fair share. I also like to buy gifts and treat my loved one, but thats because I want to, not because you demand it. I'd also like to be treated now and then myself!

I am not criticising anyone how chooses to mave a living from this lifestyle, making money from doing something you love is great. All I am saying is its not for me. I'm not going to change my opinion, so spare me the indignant messages if you don't like my view. I just want to make my position totall clear and hopefully I'll never need to mention it again!

Its quite disappoing the way so many profiles here listed as single women turn out to actually be in a relationship. Personally I have no interest in sharing and I'm suspicous of the motives of anyone already in a relationship looking for someone new.

Dear CM. Kindly send me a new block button, I appear to have broken mine with the amount of fakes and scammers on your site. Thanks in advance!

Why is it that there seems to be a direct link between the type of person I like and the distance away they are from me?

Most of the local people seem rather unappealing, yet nearly every profile from Wales and the West Country are exactly what I'm after? Maybe I'll have to move, either that or just accept that a bit of Celt really seems to do it for me :)

Pretty ironic really, the very worst thing that can happen to me in a sub/domme relationship is for that domme not to actually be in my life!

I reallly ought to start looking harder.

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Please don't presume your to old for me. As a rule I find dominant women truly get better with age, age brings wisdom and experience things I love. Of course I have limits, but hearing from 40 year olds who think they are too old for me makes me sad!

Wondering if it might be better to look for something more casual or play based and then take it from there. Would be nice to hear any thoughts, how you found your partner and so on?

I suppose that if I'm not sure whether to ask if you were actually born a female as I can't tell from the picture, then its safest not to ask!? :)

Why does this damn site hate paragraphs so much!!!

Seems strange to me that I see an incresing number of dominant women who believe 2 things I feel are very odd. Firstly that as a submissive man I should have no interests or specific fetishes and secondly, and even stranger, I should not be able to reject a dominant woman.

If I had no interests in this lifestyle, I'm not sure how exactly I would find myself on a site like this. I'm not going to pretend there aren't things that "do it" for me, or there are things that I would never consider. Until I know you well enough to 100% trust you it is always, ALWAYS consensual play.

I will make no apologies for being picky. Ticking the box on this site that says you are dominant or submissive does not mean you actually are. If for example you cannot write if anything other than text speak I won't think highly of you. If you don't have a job, likewise. In my opinion those that seek a wothless worm of a submissive are doing so simply to make up for their own issues. 

I make no excuses for saying this, but I expect you to work at earning my respect, just as hard as I will do for you. Call me bratty, unrealistic or as some will certainly do, call me a timewaster. I prefer real, isn't that better than spouting bullsh*t in order to get my rocks off while wasting your time?

I always thought I was open minded, well you need to be if you are on a site such as this! But a message today may have changed my mind!

I dominant gay male found his way to my profile and enquired whether I would be willing to cut open my ball sack while he watched on cam?! Am I right to think thats crossed a line? Maybe for someone more immersed in the "scene" thats a normal thing, sure made me do a double take though!

Slightly off topic, but I seem to get loads of messages from gay men, even though my profile suggests I'm straight and not looking for other males. Not saying its a bad thing, most guys have been really friendly and complimentary. Actually it would be nice if some of the women here were as friendly and supportive, but I guess thats asking a lot!

This iste seems to be full of people complaining about fakes. I thought I'd point you all in the direction of a site calle Tineye. It basically allows you to tell if a persons photo is genuine or not. If your not sure, give it a try :)

I do find it a little worrying that there is a few profiles here that I've seen mention in the past they are transexual are no trying to pass themselves off as 100% females. I mean, this is the kind of thing straight guys would really like to know about before they get in touch with you!