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Hetero Male Submissive, 63,  Valencia, California
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(Profile updated 11/08/22) Healthy, secure man here. Confident and in control in my everyday life. Friends and family might be surprised to learn of my long-term desires for submission to a strong Woman.

Some things about me that would be of interest to a dominant lady: * I'm a pretty good cook. I've been cooking for myself for over 30 years. I have a reasonable knowledge of what flavors compliment each other. I can follow a recipe. And my knife skills are sharp (pun). * I am quite comfortable in vanillla settings. Your non-kink friends and/or family would never guess what twisted, deviant desires I have. ;-) * I'm a good conversationalist. I read, and I keep up on current events. * I was raised by a mother who worked in city government, and also some non-profit organizations. I saw as a chld how smart, confident, and resourceful she and her co-workers were. Women are bad-asses! _____ I am semi-retired now, which means that although I still work, it is no longer a 9-5, 5 days a week kind of thing. So I would have more time to come to you.
Looking for compatibility and a good personal connection. Shared interests -- both vanilla and kink -- are important. Taller is preferable, since I am tall, but is of secondary importance. I am also on Fet with this user name.
I am fully aware that submissive men far outnumber dominant ladies out there. You will find that I am sincere and honest. I will treat you with courtesy and respect.












 Submissive Male



 6' 3"

 225 lbs



 Not Listed



Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Female Led Couples



 Coffee Shops




 Being allowed to worship your behind (Beginner)

 Rear End Play


 Being allowed to service you orally

 Being spanked by you (Expert)

 You using a strap-on on me (Beginner)

 Science Fiction

 Web Surfing

 Female Led Relationships

 Blue Grass



 Rock Music

 Seventies Music


 Art Galleries

 Bird Watching


 Musical Theater





 Being allowed to worship your body

 You disciplining me with a cane

 You controlling my male parts (Beginner)


 Being allowed to be your servant (Beginner)

 Hair Pulling

 Being humiliated by you (Beginner)

 Being allowed to give you massages (Beginner)

 Being allowed to be obedient to you (Beginner)

 Role Playing


 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies

 TV Sports




 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics



 Political Activism

 Female Sovereignty

 Alternative Music

 Country Music

 Folk Music

 Show Tunes




 Curious About:

 Crossdressing (Beginner)


 G-spot Stimulation

 Local BDSM Community

 Foot Worship


 Housework Service

 Orgasm Control

 Orgasm Denial

 Sensation Play

 Maid / Butler Service

 Public Play

 Shaving my pubic hair (Beginner)



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