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| This Profile is created for submissive information purposes only as there seems to be a lack of understanding of what being submissive entails and what the very basics of what a D/s type relationship is about.
First and foremost if you are new and read 50 shades of grey and think you have some insight into this lifestyle you don't. That book is a poor representation of what this entails. So ask yourself this question if you were a Dominant what would you find desirable in a submissive. After reading many many profiles it is apparent most obviously don't understand what a Dominant finds desirable or just don't care and are only interested in their own needs. The most important attribute a submissive can possess is the need and want to see other people happy because of her/his actions. Submissives are natural givers and their primary source of happiness lies in the satisfaction they get from helping others and secondarily taking pride in that process. Most profiles have been written to represent what the self titled sub/slave want and need from a relationship which is just the opposite of what a true Dominant individual wants to hear or see. A Dominant wants to know what your are about and what makes you a good submissive not what you expect of him/her. Negativity and a confrontational attitude is a completely contrary to the attitude any good Dominant wants to see. The other very important aspect is the concept of power exchange. Power Exchange is the act of a submissive giving the power over herself in different levels and aspects to the Dominant. Power Exchange can be subtle or very rigid and orchestrated. The level that power exchange plays in the relationship is a matter of what the Dominant wants and also what level of trust and commitment a submissive is willing to commit too. I also can just be for a period of time when the two are together or 24/7 in dedicated and detailed relationships. What is important about Power Exchange is that it is ultimately what dictates the seriousness and level of commitment to the relationship. What should be apparent and obvious is that the sub/slave ultimately has the power in the relationship because even if she surrenders herself/himself completely they can always revoke that power from the Dominant. Which brings up an important point about submission being a gift, if submission were a gift then you wouldn't be able to take it back so this is a poor analogy and shows a complete lack of understanding of the concept and a lack of dedication plus an excuse to remain in power in a relationship.
People are going to do what they want and have their own agendas so just because their is some kind of ideas or concepts does not mean some people will follow them for their own selfish reasons or because of fears. That being said real Dominants don't act like wolves and mindless fools and honestly is this the kind of individual you would wish to place your surrender in his/her's hands? So don't mistake a mailbox full of email as anything more than mostly those I described in the prior sentence. You are flattering yourself too much in thinking all these Dominants are interested in me when in fact most are probably married men/women trying to get some sex on the side or just find you physically attractive. If you profile says nothing about you and has nude pics then what kind of person do you expect to attract? Its like complaining about men staring at your chest when you wear a low cut top, if you want respect and want a decent Dominant then act accordingly. The guys sending you genetal pictures are exactly not the kind of man you want or need that should be apparent and with that said the same can be said about a women from my perspective. If a woman is going to put up naked pictures of herself on a website for the world to see then what kind of submissive do i likely expect her to be, it is simple, a selfish one. It is quite apparent that most people are here just for some kink and carefree sex but any woman/man who calls herself/himself a submissive and has no respect for themselves enough to present their best image says to me they are only interested in sex and their own needs and wants not even slightly a characteristic of a submissive. A submissive is a direct reflection of her/his Dominant do you honestly think a self respecting Dominant would want his/her submissive flaunting herself all over the internet?
This is a good start I will revise in the future as necessary. You are wasting time emailing this profile as i won't be checking the email or answer any email sent. Take the information serious or as a grain of salt which ever works for you.
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